Talk about reading, pay attention to communication, and do not preach. For children, preaching is the most useless and will only lead them to extremes. Use positive behavior to guide "hypnotize" him, moisten things silently, and make it easier for children to accept and change.
Should it be sparse and not blocked?
Children read romance novels, especially sentimental and sensitive girls. Parents should not blindly criticize their children. Don't stop her from watching it, watch it with her, get a general understanding of the plot, discuss the emotional line of the protagonist with her, and tell her that the girl who works hard will reap beautiful love, guide her in time, and instill correct values when discussing with her children, and we will have beautiful love. The premise is to become good enough first and study hard from now on!
The key to listening to children's thoughts lies in the way we treat them
We must calm down. It is more rational to deal with it than to deal with anger. In the eyes of mothers, children are always young children. Be sure to give your child a warm response and don't collapse in the hustle and bustle.
If the child is too stubborn, suggest other things to distract the parents.
Like me, my past life was boring and I was fascinated by novels. Now I like traveling and DIY. In other hobbies, I am not so persistent about novels. You can observe the child or take him out to relax and listen. As for his opinion, let's see what his hobbies are. For example, he read a novel in which the heroine created all kinds of talents and played the villain. You can guide her to get angry and learn skills like the heroine. In short, make friends with your child, slowly walk into his world and grow up happily with him.
Care and encourage children more.
Let them feel the love of their parents, communicate with their children equally, respect their choices and privacy, think more from the perspective of their children, think about why their children do this, and don't change their habits too early. Take your time, don't worry. Guidance is very important, cultivate children's other interests, and have more companionship and interaction.
Interest cultivation
Generally speaking, a child who is addicted to games will naturally not read novels, because his spiritual world is occupied by games. If parents can correctly guide their children to go further and further on beneficial things, then their children's future will be very bright, and naturally there is no need to worry about reading novels. Parents can combine Chinese reading comprehension to make children understand the original text as reading every time they read a novel. Generally speaking, the level of novels is not high. Gradually, if the novel is too low-level, the child will give up; It's too hard to understand. I gave up.