The old man said:
Old people are rooted in virtue, which is the best feng shui for a family; The gentleness of the old man is like water; Guide children to the right track; Leisure Le Ting curtains; Avoid gains and losses, cultivate the mind, stress morality, and not talk about right and wrong; Carelessness shows wealth; Old people should be content with contentment and support their lives; Carry forward the family style and praise Zude; Old people should mind their own business; Don't worry too much and interfere in the affairs of children and grandchildren; Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren; Old people should encourage their children and grandchildren to stand on their own feet; Educate children and grandchildren to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful; Old people should bear everything silently, embrace everything, educate everything and bless everything, just like the earth.
Parents say:
Parents should take ambition as the root, that is, take the happiness of the whole family as their own responsibility and benefit the whole family; Respect the old and love the young, and be grateful for everything. Let the family live in harmony; The most important thing for parents to educate their children is to set an example; Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words; If children are disobedient and unfilial, they should first ask themselves whether they are unfilial to the elderly and whether they have done something wrong; Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Teach children to be frank and kind, and don't let their temper suppress and disobey them. Instead, set an example, be kind and calm, praise their advantages, correct their shortcomings, establish their correct outlook on life, often talk about the advantages of their elders and cultivate their moral roots.
Old woman daughter-in-law way:
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are all foreign surnames and should feel the same way with mother and daughter; If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious and the family is separated, it will be difficult to be harmonious. Families are hard to thrive; Mother-in-law is the founder of family harmony. Take a daughter-in-law like a child, tell her what she doesn't know, remind her, guide her without distinction; Daughter-in-law should be as filial as parents, and daughter-in-law should be grateful to her mother-in-law; Always conform to your mother-in-law's heart, love what she loves and respect what she respects. If you don't understand the world, you should ask more questions. Treat them as their own biological parents and treat them equally; Mother-in-law should always praise her daughter-in-law in front of others, thank her parents for their upbringing and education, treat her shortcomings and mistakes first, then educate her, don't often tell outsiders, and don't make trouble when encountering trivial things. Daughter-in-law is tolerant in front of others and educated behind them, so she will naturally be grateful.
Husband and wife way:
Between husband and wife, love should be the root. Husband and wife take their positions, do their jobs and do their duty. The husband is honest and the wife is gentle. The way of husband and wife is the way of yin and yang, the harmony of yin and yang is rainy and moist, and the harmony of husband and wife is high in the sky and light in the clouds. The husband is righteous and the woman is obedient, the family follows the rules, and the children and grandchildren are full. Husband, honest and upright, pays more attention to his wife's strengths and influences her without being responsible; Wife, gentle duty, help her husband not to tire him, help him become virtuous, be filial to her parents-in-law, be neutral in her sister-in-law, educate her children, support the whole family, and be virtuous.
The husband said:
Men are yang and the pillar of the family; Men are like the sun in the sky, the sky is clear and peaceful, and everything can only grow with sunshine; Men should set three principles: no stubbornness, no selfish desires and distractions, and no bad hobbies; A man should be brave enough to take on the responsibility of a family to convince others. A man should keep his word, not be a coward and take responsibility bravely. Don't be a violent husband, be aggressive, reasonable, lead by example, influence and lead his wife and children, and make the family full of sunshine and positive.
The wife said;
Women are the mother of the country, the wife of the family and the wife of the people. When the nature is like water, it is gentle and submissive. If you are poor, you will become rich; if you are high, you will become low; Women should be soft as water, don't worry; If it is like water, it is not arrogant and impetuous; Such as the water of fate, clever and harmonious, can be round; Women, like the earth, should be blessed by a family to calm down the discord of a family; Treat people equally and be kind to others. Be an auspicious messenger of the family; Whenever you can be happy with others, be happy with things and be the happy star of your family; In this way, you can have a son, help your husband and have a happy family; Women must not be bitches. Bullying her husband. In a family where the yin is strong and the yang is weak, the husband will generally decline before he is old, which is difficult to maintain; A woman should not be a weak husband. Lazy, idle, and completely dependent on her husband and parents' in-laws, such a family can hardly prosper; A woman's personality and temperament have a great influence on the next generation. If she is ignorant, it is easy for her to fall to the ground and have children in a rage. Rigid and stubborn children are prone to muscle wasting; I am sulking, my personality is too weak, and there is often cold wind in my abdomen; If a woman loves face too much, has no patience, likes vanity and hates people, it is not easy to breed; Jealousy, disgust, outspoken, irony, life is easy to gasp and cough. Hate father and mother, beat and scold in-laws, perverse personality, easy to have children for no reason, sick in the belly, difficult to raise; Women are gentle and modest from primary school, and it is bound to be easy and good to have children in the future, and it is bound to be less sick and premature. All children get sick or die when they are young, many of which are caused by their mothers' anger and are also related to sexual intercourse during pregnancy. If they have sex more than once, the baby will inevitably suffer, but people are not careful and are not easy to detect.
Children's way;
Being a child should be rooted in filial piety, take filial piety as its own responsibility, be able to inherit the ancestral business, inherit the family style, and aspire to surpass the predecessors; The first step for children to be filial is to let their parents worry less, which is the greatest gratitude to their parents; Whether parents are kind, ask yourself whether you are filial; Filial piety is not only to give the elderly material satisfaction, but also to obey their parents everywhere, love and respect their parents, fulfill their wishes and be filial to their parents. Parents are the greatest blessings in the world, and their kindness is beyond words. Filial piety is complete when you are filial to the world, make a name for yourself and leave filial piety to transform the world. Children are filial, and parents naturally live long (? ); Children who are not filial to their parents will not be rewarded. Many disasters, family and career difficulties are mostly related to their own unfilial; Everything is because of unfilial. If you want to achieve good results, you must eradicate it. Filial piety is the treasure of raising roots. If you are unfilial, it is wishful thinking. This is a fact, I hope to think about it.
Daughter way:
Daughter is the star of the family, the source of the world, the foundation of the family and the source of purity; If you want family harmony and social harmony, you must start from cultivating your daughter. With a good daughter, you can have a good wife, a good mother and a good mother-in-law, and you can have a good future and a good society. Daughters should be like cotton, warm, white, soft and long; Warm as cotton, filial to parents, loving brothers, caring for and teaching children, and harmonious neighborhood; White as cotton, clean as jade, self-respecting, solemn and generous, and don't make bad friends. It is better to put an end to bad habits than to put an end to bad places; Soft as cotton, dignified and gentle, gentle, respectful to teachers and courteous to brothers; Don't be brave, stubborn and impatient; As long as cotton is long, frugal, simple and economical, not lazy, not competing with consumption. If you can be a daughter, you will be a good wife and mother, a lucky star at home, and you will have a happy life.
Brothers and sisters:
Brothers and sisters are rooted in righteousness and close as brothers. We should respect each other, sympathize with each other, help each other and fill each other's gaps; Brothers and sisters should walk in the street. Whether the younger brother respects or not, ask yourself if you are kind or not; Regardless of whether my brother is kind or not, ask yourself whether you respect him or not. Do your part; Brother is half a parent, so he should set an example, help his father to set up a career, help his mother to manage the family, inherit his parents' ambition and the virtues of his ancestors. Brothers and sisters should treat their brothers as elders, but they can't make up for it just because they make up. Harmony between brothers and sisters is filial piety to parents. Because the last thing parents want is disharmony between their children. Brothers are not in harmony, but they are different for money. It will shame parents and hurt the family relationship between brothers and sisters. It is against nature and will be punished and spurned by the world. People who can't get along with their brothers and sisters can't make real friends outside.
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