First, close the distance between teachers and students People often say that distance produces beauty, and the same distance will also produce misunderstanding. Due to the psychological characteristics of adolescence, students become very sensitive, and sensitive and fragile psychology can easily amplify misunderstandings into various contradictions. Therefore, in order to avoid this contradiction, teachers must close the distance with students. Only in this way can the relationship between them be effectively improved, and only in this way can teachers enter the inner world of students, so that many misunderstandings will naturally be eliminated.
Second, use communication to solve contradictions. Sometimes the contradiction between teachers and students is inevitable. Now that it has happened, the teacher can only try to solve it quickly. The most effective way here is to communicate patiently. Communication can make each other understand each other's position, help to eliminate ideological differences, and finally it is easier to get a solution acceptable to everyone. However, many teachers do not understand this skill, but abuse their power to intimidate students, which eventually leads to these children becoming more and more rebellious, which is obviously extremely wrong.
Third, using trust to improve the above-mentioned relationship can make it easier for teachers to enter students' hearts and eliminate many misunderstandings. And trust can build a bridge between two people, which is also a very effective way to improve the relationship. In the process of getting along with students, teachers should understand them more and trust them more, so that the relationship between them will naturally become more and more harmonious over time and many contradictions can be effectively resolved.