Teacher Wang Weihua.
Communicate with children with high emotional intelligence without shouting.
Accompany wise parents with your heart
Lifelong learning is a role model for children.
Parents with high EQ bring up happy children.
Wise parents bring up excellent children.
One: Don't make a hullabaloo about, and don't communicate with children with high emotional intelligence.
1: EQ ~ refers to the ability to observe other people's emotions and control your own Wikipedia.
2. EQ is a measure of a person's behavioral ability in interpersonal communication.
3. EQ includes three abilities: the ability to control personal emotions.
B: emotional perception
C: the ability to get along with others.
Anxiety and bad emotions will surround you and tell others' emotions. Intimate relationship
The less you say, the more contradictions can be alleviated.
Stay alert
Second, people with high EQ resonate with ordinary service personality.
1: Be considerate of others and care about their feelings.
2. Usually, the leaders of a circle will care about whether everyone is happy at the party, take good care of each participant and make the scene not embarrassing.
3. Make others feel comfortable when you speak.
4. Speaking is not self-centered,
5. Can bring excellent user experience to others.
Three: resolve bad emotions in time.
Mom's happiness can save the whole family's mood.
"Mom is often unhappy" When a child grows up in a family, the deepest impression in childhood is his mother's face, and the whole family is overcast, forming a "please-type personality"
Dare not express their needs, especially dare not refuse others. I am particularly good at reading people's feelings. I am always worried that I will make others unhappy. While doing housework desperately, she will give her family a bad look, get angry and nag, lose time and lose her family's love.
High EQ is a service-oriented personality.
Let others feel comfortable when they talk, and the corners of their mouths are raised to listen.
Four: Language is a double-edged sword.
Are you really stupid?
You are so stupid. Are you a pig brain?
How can you be my son? Stupid like who?
You are not ashamed. I'm ashamed.
Five: Violent language around children.
A: Waste.
B:
Captain: Guns.
Six: Violent communication
Verbal accusation, abuse, slander, contempt, ridicule, denial, preaching and arbitrary interruption are all insulting and discriminatory languages.
Invisible pressure and blow
Seventh: nonviolent communication: the language of love
Understand ~ listen ~ help each other ~ praise ~ praise ~ affirmation ~ appreciate the language you speak ~ good words ~ love.
Eight: Shi Yan: If yes.
Language is like a seed.
Words have vitality ~ praise ~ praise ~ affirmation ~ appreciation
People need praise just as they need food and sleep.
Nine: Accompany wise parents with your heart and teach them what to do in the world.
Education: adopting a son makes it better.
Three views: world outlook ~ outlook on life ~ values
A: Life values
Freedom ~ happiness ~ self-esteem ~ honest obedience ~ equality ~ family ~ friends ~ love
B: Professional values: ideal values and world outlook.
Ten: Careful mother, accompanying father
Family education, childbirth, parenting, education.
Family style, family rules, family education
Parents' attitudes, words and deeds, language habits, etc. It always affects children, subtly affects them, and children's ideological quality, behavior habits and language style. It was branded by parents.
Like father, like son.
Like mother, like son
Behavior habit, language style
Eleven: The child loses his temper if he doesn't agree with a word
A: Children have a big temper, but parents have a bigger temper.
Blindly connive at children
Effective communication and guidance
D: Make rules and obey them gently.
E: first negative phase
Terrible two-year-old "the first period of resistance from childhood to about two years old, a troublesome two-year-old baby"
Twelve: the craftsman spirit of educators.
Pay attention to the present: craftsman spirit
"Jade is rough and wears easily."
Craftsman spirit: the spirit of craftspeople to elaborate and improve products.
No matter how great a person's career achievements are, they can't make up for the failure of educating children!
Thirteen: lifelong learning becomes a role model for children.
Education begins with the mother;
Mother education lays the foundation of national quality.
Mother is the dominant factor in family education,
The hand that moves the world is the hand that shakes the cradle. Happy family education has improved the quality of mothers.
A mother must finally learn to be a wise mother and know her children.
Fourteen: the taste of a happy home, rice fragrance, sandalwood and book fragrance.
The smell of rice in the kitchen cupboard ~ the smell of sandalwood in the bedroom closet ~ the smell of books in the study bookcase ~ the smell of books in educational problems: in the old days, it was pointed out that the family was a scholar, generally referring to a good family.
Fifteen: family education: read good books and know the rules.
Big data shows that children from "reading-oriented" families have a higher proportion of excellent grades.
1: IQ is reading.
2. Emotional intelligence is doing things.
Words and business are success.
4. Loving business is happiness.
Sixteen: Experience happiness and learn happiness.
Create happiness and pass it on.
Lifelong learning becomes a role model for children;
Parents with high EQ bring up happy children. Wise parents bring up excellent children.
Work happily, live happily and enjoy life.
April 14