(2) Correct guidance: Heart disease must be treated with cardiac drugs. Students' problems in daily life, communication and study include experience problems, methods problems and psychological problems, which should be treated differently according to different situations. Generally speaking, mental and emotional problems are mostly mental health problems. Don't criticize and criticize excessively, let alone satirize and attack. We should have a heart-to-heart conversation like friends, comb in a targeted way, inspire patiently and guide correctly. Help him determine the goal of life, choose the road to success that suits his specialty, learn to deal with the relationship with others and society, and improve his personality.
(3) Good at waiting: It takes a process, even a slow process, to solve psychological problems, and it is impossible to get immediate results. Therefore, we should be good at waiting, be good at subtle influence, seek rain in the spring breeze and persevere. This is not only an effective way to solve psychological problems, but also an important way to cultivate teachers' educational ability and improve their psychological quality.
(4) In addition, I think schools can also cooperate with psychology teachers to carry out activities to impart psychological knowledge to students. In this way, they also have.
For example, if it is a mental health problem of middle school students, it mainly comes from the confusion of academic performance, the relationship between classmates (teacher-student relationship), the relationship between father (mother) and son, and the hazy relationship between men and women.
If you are a parent, the suggestions are as follows: 1. First, establish a friendly, equal and trusting relationship with children, don't always put on an "elder" face, not only care about children's academic performance, but also share some views with children on things he cares about (such as being familiar with children's hobbies); 2. Frequently exchange views with children on current politics, society and other issues, including some views on love and marriage, to help children establish a healthy world outlook; 3. When children encounter problems, they can discuss solutions with them, and they can also exchange their positive and negative experiences in work and social life with them (things that are suitable for children's understanding level and may inspire children); 4. Pay attention to the children's usual "little things" and solve the early problems in time.
Note: There should be half an hour to an hour to "chat" with children every day. You shouldn't be too busy to do the work. Parents' healthy way of thinking, calm way of doing things and the performance of intimate relationship are all positive orientations for children. Some can solve their common psychological problems.