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Many teachers fail to educate their children well. Why?
Maybe many people have found such a phenomenon. Many teachers clearly know that they are excellent, but they just can't educate their children well. Why? In fact, this is mainly because some parents, although teachers, only pay attention to their children's academic performance, or always mix the roles of teachers and parents, which can not achieve the best educational effect.

First, the role is chaotic.

Many teachers and parents make the mistake of training their children as students. This seems to be no problem, but it actually has great disadvantages. Children need to face the pressure of teachers at school, and they need to face another one when they get home? Teacher? Is it at home this time? Teacher? Even worse than the school teacher. Multiple pressures may make children feel inferior and lose their original independence and creativity. Therefore, parents must not make mistakes in their roles, nor can they educate their children in the same way as they educate their students.

Second, only pay attention to achievements.

Teachers and parents usually pay more attention to children's grades because they want to cultivate excellent children. Have high expectations for children and ask them to surpass themselves. But because of this, these children will lack quality and quality education. Although they get good grades, they don't have good moral quality, so children will be restricted after entering the society, which will have a great impact on the future.

Third, limited by thought.

As teachers, many parents are limited by their own thoughts. Their circle is small, and most of their time is spent in the process of teaching and educating people. It is precisely because of this narrow circle that children's own activities and horizons are affected, so they are not well educated. Therefore, some teachers cultivate children who are timid and cautious, unwilling to take risks, and have no creativity and thinking ability.

But everything is not absolute, for example, some teachers can educate their children well, so this is mainly related to the teacher's education method.