The solution for a too delicate child 1. Reform-through-labour cures coke. Labor is a good way to cure scorch. After explaining the truth to the child, arrange a slightly more difficult labor task and encourage the child to stick to it. At the beginning, parents had better work with their children and give guidance at any time.
For example, family cleaning, learning to roll dumpling wrappers, scrubbing the floor and the bathroom every day. The key is perseverance. When children work, they should be more sure and more guided. During the winter and summer vacations, you can arrange more labor tasks.
Second, running and climbing mountains to cure coke. Lovely children are most afraid of running and climbing mountains. Parents and children agree to run together at least three times a week, and the distance depends on the age and physical condition of the child. Start from 1000m, accelerate after running several times, and then gradually extend the distance. Recording time can stimulate enthusiasm. It's also a good idea to go climbing or hiking on weekends. Running mountain climbing can not only broaden your horizons, but also exercise your body and temper your will.
Third, complete the learning tasks regularly. Discuss with your child what level a concentrated study time can reach, and then set a goal. For example, I can concentrate on studying for 30 minutes, and now I will set it as 40 minutes, and I will make clear the requirements for learning quality. Set the alarm clock, seize every minute, let the children see the effect and encourage them in time. If children can't do it, parents can come together, read books, draw key points, take notes, compete with each other and supervise each other. Parents should be serious and don't pretend.
Fourth, cooperate with the class teacher to treat coke. Communicate with the teacher first, and ask the teacher to arrange some routine tasks for the children, praise and criticize. After praise and criticism, parents should analyze with their children in time why they were praised and criticized and how to treat them correctly. After several times, children can tolerate praise and criticism and learn to control their emotions. You can also suggest that teachers and children talk about feminine issues and write them in the moral comments? If you can overcome your femininity, you will make greater progress? The first category, mobilize the enthusiasm of children to treat their own jiao.
The child's performance is too delicate. First, they are very delicate in life. Pick and choose what to eat, and eat what you like endlessly, without moving at all. Adults spend a lot of time at the dinner table, sometimes forcing their parents to do this and that; The use of stationery and articles comes from nature. Use it if you like, and throw it away if you don't like it. Parents buy this and that. If you feel a little sick and don't want to go to school, ask your parents for leave. Physical education class can't be invited often.
Second, be a sissy in your studies. If you do your homework for a while, you will be tired; Let parents sharpen pencils, wrap book covers and organize stationery; Reading for a while is like? Uncle? For example, order parents to pour water, take drinks and take fruits; If you don't do your homework well, it's good to rely on your parents; I didn't do well in the exam, and my parents didn't review well; When you encounter difficulties in your study, you will get bored and lose your temper easily.
Third, the labor is fine. I'm tired of making me hate work and make me work. ; Being listless at work and coping with errands; Washing clothes is afraid of cold water; Cleaning and taking out the garbage are too dirty; Hard work can't be done, and light work doesn't like it; I can still study hard at school, and I don't even bother to wash my feet when I get home.
Fourth, can't stand criticism and praise. When criticized, I feel wronged, depressed, crying, and sometimes arguing with my parents; Get a little praise, be complacent, even get carried away.
Children are too delicate, mainly because adults love them too much. In a family, if one of several adults doesn't spoil his children, he will often become a loser, because other adults will become the opposition between him and his children. If you want to spoil your children, the elders should first unify their understanding and realize that spoiling your children will bring bad consequences, hurt your children and affect your family. Some parents have been using it? The child is still young? It's no good as an excuse to spoil children. It should be understood that children should gradually reduce femininity and become strong-willed children as they grow older. Generally speaking, you should get rid of your femininity after the middle school grade.
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