Why get along with annoying people?

I won't expose you, but I will stay away from you.

Will quietly vote you out

I only make choices, not education

-How to deal with annoying people

One of the great troubles of adulthood is how to get along with annoying people. No one can be naive all the time, but always face the reality that "getting along with annoying people" is to protect themselves, and it is also a skill that every mature and intelligent young person must learn.

1, ignoring expectations

Keep a normal heart. It doesn't matter to us how the other person is. We are not responsible for other people's emotions. We don't expect each other to change and waste our time.

Control your emotions, don't say something you shouldn't say just because you are impulsive, which will only drag yourself into the water and escalate the contradiction.

2. Fool wisely

When we grow up, we will find that not all annoying people and things can be rejected, but really smart people will smile and fool.

You can delay the response, you can respond briefly, and an OK can replace everything; You should also learn to be distracted. If anyone asks you, you say you didn't sleep well last night.

Step 3 cultivate a sense of dullness

Passivity is a good thing. You no longer care what others say or think. If you can walk freely in your own world, you will become your own master. The charm of passivity is that you don't need to do too much, you just need to change your mind a little bit to make yourself happy within your ability.

4. Compassion brings understanding

The unpleasant side of the other party, like a mirror, can reflect our own shortcomings, help us correct ourselves and tolerate others. People should learn "backward compatibility" properly, understand and tolerate the injustice of the world, and accept the imperfections of others.