If parents are children's first teachers, then family is children's first "school". Parents are the people with whom children have the most contact, trust and dependence since birth. Parents' education will affect their children's life. Especially in the infancy of children, this is an important period for the formation of children's personality and behavior habits. Therefore, when parents consider this material condition for their children, they cannot ignore their companionship and education.
As the saying goes, "Look at the old at the age of three", a person's personality and behavior habits formed in childhood will affect his life.
How important is family education? Good family education is the best gift for children.
When children begin to explore and understand the world slowly, they all look at the people around them and imitate them. Children are almost always with their parents before going to school. At a certain time, they began to imitate their parents slowly. At this time, if parents learn some bad behavior habits from their children, isn't that "harm" in disguise? Therefore, in the infancy of children, parents must pay attention to their every move in front of their children and don't bring their bad habits to their children.
How important is family education?
I talked about the influence of parents' behavior habits on children in early childhood, but I can't think that children will get better after infancy. Babies, childhood, childhood, adolescence, adolescence. Parents can't take care of their children all their lives, but their education, words and deeds have a great influence on their children at every stage of their growth. As people often say, "What kind of parents teach what kind of children", "Parents are children's mirrors and children are parents' shadows", we can know the important position of family education.
Sociologists believe that the four aspects that have the greatest influence on children's growth are family, school, friends of the same age and mass media. Children spend two-thirds of their time at home after birth. From the moment a child is born, family education has been born invisibly. Being with children all the time in life can be called "family education". I don't know if you have heard the phrase "Invisible X is the deadliest".
Similarly, the same is true of family education. It has been produced invisibly, and basically it has always existed. The most terrible thing is that some parents are completely unaware of this and have a bad influence on their children carelessly. How important family education is to children!
So what does a good family education look like? There are positive and negative feelings, but there is no right or wrong. Anyone who is in a good mood or a bad mood will accept the child's negative emotions and let the child think that it is wrong to have negative emotions. On the other hand. Secular desires arise from this, and emotions are all feelings. The only difference is that there are positive and negative ones. But whatever it feels like, it's normal. When a child has negative emotions, he will say, "Try again. Me. " Saying "actually" is threatening children. It's threatening children. Make children feel uneasy.
Children rely on and trust their parents wholeheartedly from an early age. This kind of threat from parents will only make children feel what will happen if they are angry with their parents. Then children can't express their negative emotions, so they can only suppress them silently. After a long time, children will have problems.
Then find the problem and solve it. There is a reason why children don't get angry for no reason. So what we have to do is to find the source of children's emotions. Everything has a reason, and everything has a reason. The same is true of children's feelings. There is always a fuse when you offend. Communicate with your children more and know what a fuse is.
Only by patiently listening to children can we solve problems with them. It's no use just denying the child's feelings. Family education appears in every little thing in life.
The work of father and daughter is a common trivial matter for children and parents to lose their temper, but the father's handling method is really worth learning. This is actually a good family education for children. Family education is like this. Because in every little thing in life, parents and children are always "tutors" when they are together.