Let's start with the conclusion. Not completely influenced by traditional ideas, parents will have a concept that loss is a blessing. They want to convey this concept to their children, or they will be impressed by every little thing in life and make their children have a concept that loss is a blessing.

So is this behavior really right?

First of all, parents' ideas must be traditional. What they mean is to learn to be tolerant and not be so haggle over trifles that you don't care about.

But if this idea is more extreme, it is obviously incorrect.

Because from the current educational concept, no matter what, there must be a degree, especially the so-called loss is a blessing. If you simply accept that loss is a blessing, it can't be applied to every scene. Sometimes, it seems to be too one-sided, which may cause children to be afraid to speak when they encounter some things, which may lead to serious injuries.

Therefore, as parents, we should not blindly convey this concept to our children, but tell them to balance the two ways, what each way is like and what the consequences will be.

What's the problem if parents insist on guidance and get it back? I think there are three major problems.

Parents don't look at problems from the perspective of their children. First of all, the first point is that parents don't look at the problem from the child's point of view, but use their deep-rooted ideas to directly convey this concept to their children and let them do it.

I didn't look at what I would think if I encountered such a thing at this stage from the perspective of a child.

Parents don't regard their children as independent people. The second is that children are not respected. Children are independent people. When something happens, parents should discuss it with their children and try to let them find a way to solve it themselves, instead of just conveying an idea and letting them do it directly.

The concept of "losing is a blessing" may bring harm to children. Finally, if you keep conveying this idea and children do the same, children are likely to be hurt by personal safety.

Many children may get hurt outside, but considering the concept of "losing is a blessing", he won't tell you, especially young girls, who may be more vulnerable to such injuries.

Therefore, it is necessary to teach children and guide them to think about what these two ways should be, how you should solve the problem and let them protect themselves.

Avoid extreme "a loss is a blessing"!