"Everyone else is playing the piano. Why should I practice it?"

But after becoming famous, Jay Chou was very grateful to her mother for her painstaking efforts.

Because Jay Chou's achievement in music depends on "consciousness", and this "consciousness" comes from his mother.

It is because of his mother's urging that he has a place in the Chinese music scene with his musical talent.

Those parents who are really far-sighted can be a little cruel when educating their children.

Because they know that if they want to cultivate an excellent child, they must give him just the right control.

How good is the child?

Just look at his self-discipline.

What kind of children are most worry-free?

Must be a self-disciplined child.

Such children don't need too many reminders from their parents, don't bother to block their mobile phones from playing games, and don't stare at their homework every day. ......

Self-disciplined children often know when and what to do.

Therefore, sometimes, our children and "other people's children" may just be "self-disciplined".

Actress Christina once posted a conversation between her and her son on Weibo:

When other children are playing, this child is planning time and completing the goals set for himself by self-discipline.

So at a young age, I can write English at the age of 8, and the painting level of 10 is enough for people to bid 30 thousand yuan.

A famous person once said this sentence:

The Excellence of children does not depend on talent, but on persistence and hard work when others indulge.

Life begins with self-discipline.

Inertia is human nature.

Don't expect children to be born conscious.

However, not every child is as disciplined as Christina's son.

Parents often complain: "Children play with mobile phones all day, while adults have to stare at their homework ..."

Therefore, when you see a lazy child, you can't help cursing: "If other children are more sensible and conscious, can't you be conscious?"

Unfortunately, I can't.

For most children, self-discipline is a scarce commodity.

You know, laziness is human nature, and children are no exception.

Self-discipline is anti-human, and children are naturally inclined to "benefit" and avoid "harm".

In their eyes, easy things such as playing mobile phones and games are "benefits" and tiring work such as studying homework is "disadvantages".

No child is naturally willing to sit on the bench and study, let alone let him understand the meaning of learning. They can't understand at this time.

One of the most common mistakes in educating children is to convince them with the truth that adults understand.

Children don't understand what adults do.

A self-disciplined child is "managed" or even "forced" to develop appropriately.

On the road of education, don't expect children to be conscious.

Self-discipline of parents leading by example

It is the best encouragement for children.

There is a popular saying on the Internet:

It's not nice, but it makes sense.

Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Behind a self-disciplined child, parents who set an example often stand.

As the German educator Froebel said, "There is nothing but love and example in education."

Just like Wu Yishu's father, in order to accompany his daughter well, he turns off his mobile phone every day after work.

Influenced by his father, Wu Yishu does not play mobile phones in his spare time, but uses them for reading, reciting poems and practicing calligraphy.

Rudolf steiner once wrote in The Kingdom of Childhood:

There is no such thing as "setting an example", especially when it comes to self-discipline.

What kind of parents are far more important than what parents ask their children to do.

Therefore, the most important thing for parents is their self-discipline.

Self-disciplined parents are the blessing of a child's life.

Learn self-discipline

Start by forming good habits.

Jobs said, "Where does freedom come from? From self-confidence, and self-confidence comes from self-discipline. "

If you want children to be free, you must let them be self-disciplined.

I hope that children will be self-disciplined, and parents should be self-disciplined first.

In addition, if children want to learn self-discipline, they can start from developing good habits.

Work and rest regularly, work in an orderly and planned way, don't indulge in entertainment, and do your own thing. ......

Listen carefully, think positively, dare to question, organize notes, finish homework independently, and insist on reading and practicing calligraphy. ......

French scholar Bacon said: "Habit is the master of life, and people should strive to pursue good habits."

Only by developing good habits and self-discipline can children fly high and far.

Attachment: 8 family education rules, teaching children self-discipline, it is recommended to collect.

In short, good children are managed and excellent children are accompanied.

Parents should never expect their children to be conscious, let alone miss education.

Don't wait for the failure of children's education before you suddenly realize that parents should be the last to be lazy and children should be the last to be released.

Children's education is an irreversible live broadcast, and there is only one chance in a lifetime.

During the validity period of the child, do your parents' duty.

For children, your companionship, your discipline and your role model will be the best education for children.