1. Keep a cool head.
When children are rebellious, parents are generally dissatisfied and generally use power to suppress their children. In fact, parents at this time should remind themselves to stay calm and wait for their children to calm down before communicating. When a child is rebellious, his words and deeds will be like a storm, and he will not know how to control himself, but his parents are adults and should know when to stay calm.
2. Don't protect children too much.
Encourage children to boldly try what they want to do, cultivate self-reliance and dare to express their opinions, and tell him to think more positively and not always complain. Parents can also give their children more freedom.
Step 3 trust children
Because they have a very strong sense of independence, we should give them corresponding trust. Children often say that my parents don't trust me or understand me. In this case, we should give him some rights and trust, let him do something independently, and accept the side that they are not doing so well. Because they are in a semi-adult and naive state, trust is very important.
4. Hide the purpose of education and don't turn over old accounts.
In the face of children's rebellious behavior, parents should not directly say "no". For example, if a child says he wants to buy high-end clothes, if you say "no, no way", it will only lead to the child's rebellious mentality, and he feels that his parents can't communicate and don't understand themselves. It is to open the door to communication and communicate with children. It is necessary to allow children to make mistakes, educate them not to be emotional, not to turn over old scores, not to insult personal dignity, and to guide them by asking questions instead of asking for dignity.