In the usual study, work and life, when it comes to deeds, everyone must be familiar with them. With the help of deeds, we can well reflect the advanced thoughts, spirits and specific characteristics of the times of advanced objects. How is the general deed drafted? The following is my collection of good family stories in rural areas for reference only. Let's have a look.
1 Parents' educational level is not high, but the spirit they exude affects every member of the extended family, such as equality between men and women, respect for the elderly and love for the young, friendliness, harmony, warmth and harmony ... Thousands of years of traditional Chinese virtues have been passed down from generation to generation in this family through words and deeds.
First, Chinese virtues and precepts are passed down from generation to generation.
When his father Liu Yuming was in his thirties, he suffered from a brain tumor and became blind. The burden of family life rests entirely on his mother Huang Zuxiu. Working outside to make a living, taking care of elderly and sick parents, her husband and young children who were blind due to brain tumor, since then, the image of Liu Lianqing's mother getting up early and getting greedy for the dark has left a deep impression on her mind.
His mother's words and deeds also influenced Liu Lianqing, and he tried his best to share the pressure of life for his mother. Until Liu Lianqing's grandfather died, and later, my grandmother developed Alzheimer's disease. Some things that ordinary people think are relatively simple always make a mess, but my mother has never accused my grandmother, not even a complaint. When you have time, take the old man out to bask in the sun and get in touch with nature until grandma dies.
1962, my father was blind. During the operation, the doctor asserted that my father could only live for 20 years at most. Mother did not give up, did not flinch, resolutely shouldered the burden and gritted her teeth. It has been more than 50 years since the operation, which is my mother's persistence and careful care. My father broke the doctor's 20-year life imprisonment and created a miracle of life.
Now, Liu Lianqing's father and mother are over eighty years old, and their bodies are getting older and older. However, the mother doesn't want to cause trouble to her children, and she still lives alone. This has become a heart disease for Liu Lianqing. With the support of their lover, the family insisted on doing ideological work for the elderly and finally persuaded them to take them to their side.
Considering the old people's age and bad teeth, Liu Lianqing's family changed their eating habits. They try to choose foods with less fiber, cut them into small pieces and cook them softly. The climate has changed, so they buy clothes and necessities for their in-laws in time, and try their best to adapt to the old people so that the two old people can support themselves. Liu Lianqing's two daughters also inherited this virtue in this family atmosphere and role model. They are very filial to their grandparents and help the two old people do what they can, fearing that they will be lonely. When I come home from school, I always tell them stories that happened at school.
Family relations in Liu Lianqing are very harmonious at present. Family members understand, support and help each other, and they have never quarreled or been violent. When there are differences between husband and wife, they always solve the differences calmly and gain the understanding and support of the other party in accordance with the principle of putting facts and reasoning. Daughter-in-law cares about mother-in-law, and mother-in-law understands daughter-in-law.
Second, education is the foundation of foundation.
Education is indispensable for children to become useful people to the country, society and family. In those difficult times, Huang Zuxiu, the mother, did not let her children drop out of school because of difficulties, nor did she prefer boys to girls. Her mother knows the harm of ignorance and culture and often tells her children to study hard. It is the mother's open mind that has trained three college students and five junior college students among the Liu Lianqing sisters.
For the sake of inheritance and reality, Liu Lianqing is willing to invest in children's education. He would rather eat less and wear less than lose his children's investment in education. He should be broad in life and delicate in spirit, which has become another life concept of Liu Lianqing family.
The eldest daughter is very talented in guzheng and English. In order to give children a higher education platform, in 2000, the whole family collected more than 40,000 yuan to let her go to Guiyang to learn guzheng and receive English training, so as to improve their comprehensive quality in many ways. I have lived up to everyone's hopes. Now, my eldest daughter, Guzheng, has passed Grade 9. She was admitted to Beijing Foreign Studies University last year and grew up mentally healthy and happy.
My youngest daughter has been active since she was a child. In order to cultivate children's patience, she began to send children to learn piano when they were three years old. Her mother takes time out to practice piano with her children every day. They all took an active part in the youth instrumental music competition held by provinces and cities. After hard work, the youngest daughter passed the piano level 10 at 20 10. He has won many gold and silver prizes in provincial and municipal youth instrumental music competitions and the honorary title of "Outstanding Member of Bijie City".
Third, sincerely pay for a harmonious family.
I am very satisfied with my present family. The relationship between family members, whether horizontal or vertical, is quite harmonious, and it is a truly harmonious big family. The reason why we have reached this situation can be summarized as: sincere dedication, sincere treatment, empathy, tolerance and humility. The relationship between people is a mutual and interactive relationship. As long as everyone can be "true", be less selfish and more public-minded, a harmonious family relationship will be established.
Materials of good family style and family deeds in rural areas II. Holding public power, only for the people, never for personal use, never let family members touch the light of power, and never use public power to exchange any benefits for their families, which is extremely rare and particularly valuable for leading cadres. But people like Jiao and Gu Wenchang did it, and persisted all their lives.
Jiao Youlu is very strict with his children and never gives them "special care". The third daughter Jiao Shouyun told such a story in her memory. "When my sister graduated to work, my mother asked my father how to arrange it. My father said that one option is to clean the toilet in the office, and the other option is to work as a worker in a kimchi factory. " Mom was very happy to hear that, and thought it was good to be a worker. Unexpectedly, Jiao not only asked her daughter to work in a kimchi factory, but also asked her to carry the burden and sell kimchi in the street. "In those days, the elder sister was a big girl with a thin face, and her father was the county party secretary. I can't figure it out. " Stalemate for a long time, jiao said, then I will sell pickles with you. "Only in this way can I do the ideological work of Tong Dajie."
Under the influence of Jiao, his wife Xu Junya also disciplined her children. When Lankao just installed the telephone, his son Yuejin, who works in the village, excitedly planned to install one at home. Unexpectedly, Xu Junya resolutely disagreed: "You plan to telecommute at home by installing a phone? How can we understand the thoughts and difficulties of the masses without going from village to village? " When Bao Gang, the youngest son, took part in the work, Xu Junya insisted that his son be a temporary worker in the garage ... piles and piles, which reflected the clean and honest family style of Jiao Jia. "Self-reliance" is Gu Wenchang's consistent requirement for his children. His five children didn't get any "special care" in their work and life, even if the policy allowed, Gu Wenchang wouldn't "fight for" them.
From 65438 to 0976, Gu Wenchang's youngest son, Gu Yudong, graduated from high school, and his greatest wish was to be a worker in a factory. At that time, Mr. and Mrs. Gu Wenchang were in their sixties. According to the policy, they could leave a child to work around. Gu Yudong asked Gu Wenchang, then deputy director of the regional revolutionary committee, to stay with his parents. After a long silence, Gu Wenchang advised him to go to the countryside to receive re-education for poor middle peasants. Gu Wenchang said, "I am a leading cadre. I can't ask the organization to arrange work for the children. How else can I do my work in the future? "
Gu Wenchang's daughter Gu Zhehui spent 15 years from a temporary job to a full-time job. From 65438 to 0963, Gu Zhehui graduated from high school and worked as a temporary worker in the county finance department. She is honest, wears patched trousers, can bear hardships and sleeps on the floor when she goes to the countryside. Others simply can't see that this is the daughter of the county party secretary. 1965, Gu Wenchang was transferred to the position of deputy director-general of Fujian Forestry Department, and the relevant departments proposed to turn Gu Zhehui into a regular worker and go to the provincial capital with Gu Wenchang. Gu Wenchang strongly disagreed. He said: "I was promoted by the organization, not my daughter." Since then, Gu Zhehui has had many opportunities to become a full member, all of which were "stopped" by Gu Wenchang, and he did not become a full member until 1979.
Gu Wenchang is strict with her children, and so is her wife. Gu Wenchang's lover, Shi Ying Ping, is a cadre going south. At the beginning of the founding of New China, she came to Dongshan with Gu Wenchang. At that time, she was the head of the county civil affairs department. When she changed her salary on 1952, she was given the administrative rank of 18. In the next 30 years of work, her position and salary level have not been improved.
Gu Wenchang's unusually strict family style towards himself and his family is "inhuman" to some people, which is why Gu Wenchang has set up a monument in the hearts of the people.
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