(1) As an educator, we should set an example, guide and give children a good and correct demonstration. As teachers, we also need to set an example. As mothers of children, we also need to set an example. It is not correct to ask children to do their own homework and play cards. Studying with children is the most important thing, because a good mother needs to study and recharge. (2) Principles are equally important. Society needs the rule of law and family principles. As a mother, at home, we also need to pay attention to principles, keep our word, formulate a good system to implement, and don't praise children as soon as they show their performance; When children behave badly, they give them a good beating. If one day some mothers are happy, even if the child makes a mistake, it will easily pass, which leads to unprincipled education for the child and is a kind of harm to the child. (3) Hard work Life is a fulfilling process. Being a good mother also needs enrichment and hard work. China people are characterized by diligence, while China people are famous for their diligence abroad, so if we lose the word diligence, we may lose the essence of China people and get no respect from our children. If children are asked to do homework every day, while their mothers are watching TV, playing computer or even playing mahjong, these phenomena will have a bad influence on children. If children want to study well, they must finish a lot of homework assigned by the teacher, which definitely requires diligence. Therefore, it is also a bad performance of being a mother if parents don't give their children a good demonstration. (4) Commitment is the commitment of parents. It is also extremely important. If you make a promise, you need to do it seriously. Otherwise, it will give children a bad demonstration and a bad subtle process.

Rejecting emotions, natural women are more sensitive than men in physiology and psychology, and it is easier to replace logic with emotions in the face of problems, so we should guide children's behavior from motivation, rather than suppress children's behavior through emotions.

It is necessary to grasp children's psychology and establish a behavior guidance mechanism. From the time when children can communicate, they will use the point reward system to guide their behavior.

Being a child's friend, a good mother should not only study the child's psychology and establish a habit formation mechanism, but also be a child's friend and talk to him about things he likes and is interested in, instead of forcing him to finish his homework all day.

If you want to be a good mother, you need to do something special and interesting for your children. This will make your children feel very happy and meaningful.

If you want to be a good mother, you need to encourage your husband often. Many women think that husband doesn't care about children at all, so mothers can praise him for being good at coaxing children from the beginning when he comes into contact with them, and slowly cultivate his vanity. He will naturally like taking care of children as much as you do.