How do children have sex education? The survey found that most boys would get sex education from other boys if they didn't get the initial sex education from their parents. Children get incorrect sexual ideas outside, how to carry out sex education?
How to educate children about sex 1?
Establish a correct image of gender relations for children. Children often establish their own moral standards and sexual moral standards by observing their parents' words and deeds. Love and consideration between parents is the best education for children. Parents must know that you are doing a role demonstration. Children imitate not only what you say, but also what you do.
Start from the front
We often overemphasize the harm of sex to children and associate sex with AIDS, early pregnancy, sex and harassment, but forget to tell them that sex is a manifestation of love, and sex is a beautiful and meaningful thing under appropriate circumstances. Guilt and shame often have a negative impact on them, and parents should guide them correctly.
Education should be carried out as soon as possible
Sex education for children should be a subtle process, rather than sitting down and "telling the truth" as many parents say. Therefore, education in this area should start from an early age, let children's curiosity guide you, and just answer questions frankly. In this way, when the child is 15 or 16 years old, he will naturally discuss with you and will not be embarrassed and embarrassed.
Give children sex education easily and casually.
What matters is not how much you know, but whether your attitude is good or not. You don't have to do anything in front of the children. no
sorry Having a new baby at home or with relatives and friends will naturally attract children's attention and curiosity. When he finds that he is different from himself and asks you questions, you may explain the difference between boys and girls and tell him that gender differences are not defects, and there is no difference between good and bad.
Take children's feelings seriously.
It is normal for children to begin to pay attention to their own physiological phenomena or be afraid of physiological changes. You should take them seriously, not laugh at them. Therefore, children will ask you questions. Saying "don't ask adults, hairy children" will alienate children. 80% children will have close opposite sex and partners between 6- 12 years old, but it is definitely not love, but the "internship" of children's love life. If you don't respect their feelings, you won't listen to your sermon when you really fall in love when you grow up, even though your treatment is very useful at that time.
Educate children with traditional knowledge
Many parents are not unwilling to educate their children about this knowledge, but feel that their knowledge is out of date. In fact, telling children about their experiences is what they want to remember most. Those children who have legitimate sexual concepts are less likely to have problems, while those who lack sexual knowledge are more likely to have problems.
How do children carry out sex education 2 1 and integrate sex education into daily life?
At present, sex education in our country is relatively rare in schools, so parents can use their daily life to tell their children some relevant sexual knowledge, such as clearly telling their children the name of reproductive organs when taking a shower, telling them that no one can touch their sexual organs, or when children are playing with friends, if they encounter girls squatting to urinate, boys standing to urinate, etc., they can easily tell their children relevant sexual knowledge.
2. Don't avoid children's sexual problems.
Generally speaking, children are full of curiosity and ignorance about sex in infancy, especially after they gradually enter adolescence. At this time, don't refuse to answer because of shyness when the child has relevant questions, otherwise, when the child asks questions, it will not only dispel the children's doubts, but will increase their curiosity. We should face them correctly and tell them the relevant answers.
3. Talk like friends.
For older children, their psychology should be fully considered when conducting sex education. After all, such children don't agree with the didactic education. They can communicate with their children in the dialogue with friends, which makes them feel more equal and easier to be accepted by children.
4. If you don't understand, check the information together.
When children ask questions, if parents can't give accurate answers, they can search for information together, search for answers together, and discuss together, so as to prevent children from blindly searching and entering some websites by mistake because they can't get accurate answers.
5. Don't worry about scale.
Generally speaking, children's mastery of knowledge is cyclical and gradual. Even if parents educate more knowledge, the amount absorbed by children is limited. When encountering some large-scale problems, parents don't have to worry too much, just tell the answers with a normal heart, seize the opportunities in daily life, and let the children understand.
skill
Parents should take correct measures to educate their children about sex. After all, at present, there are more and more frequent crimes caused by teenagers' ignorance. Only with the correct guidance of parents can children be prevented from looking for answers from other places or even committing crimes out of curiosity.
How to educate children about sex 3 1 Parents should establish a correct concept and don't lead their children into misunderstanding.
When the baby grows up, he will ask all kinds of questions about the difference between male and female organs, and parents are naturally the first objects to be asked. Parents don't have to answer irrelevant questions, or hide them, or regard them as dirty and dirty, and severely scold them. This will make children mistakenly think that reproductive organs are a symbol of filth and shameless, and regard all related activities as ugly.
Some children even have rebellious mentality. They are determined to find out, or play with their sexual organs more frequently to satisfy their curiosity, or spy on their parents' sexual life, forming a sense of mystery and even committing crimes when they grow up. In short, this will seriously hinder the healthy development of children's psychology.
2. In daily life, children should be taught to gradually understand various parts of the body and their simple functions, including sexual organs.
Parents should be realistic and easy to understand, which can not only dispel children's doubts, gain their trust, but also communicate the feelings between parents and children.
For example, when you help your child take a bath, you can teach him to know his body, point out his reproductive organs and teach him the correct name, so that the child will look at the sexual organs as naturally as his hair.
Medical experts have said that children aged 3-6 often touch their sexual organs, are interested in other people's toilet movements, and even peek. This does not mean that children have sexual consciousness or consciousness, but out of mystery and curiosity.
3. Parents who share the same bed with their children should not caress or even have sex in front of their children, and should not give them the opportunity to witness and peep, because this will lead to paranoia, emotional tension and mental tension of their children and hinder their psychological development.
4. Pay attention to children's mental health education and health knowledge education.
Parents must be duty-bound to take on the responsibility of "preaching and dispelling doubts". Don't simply reprimand children for playing with their sexual organs, but tell them that it is a place to urinate, and touching children's sexual organs will make them sick.
Then help children choose good companions, good books, audio-visual tapes and other spiritual food, divert their attention, enhance their physical and mental health and help them grow up actively.