This is a good question. Family education, school education and social education constitute the three cornerstones of education, and family education is the foundation and premise of the latter two.

Mozi once said, "If you dye it in the sky, it will be pale, and if you dye it in yellow, it will be yellow." The growth of children is greatly influenced by the surrounding environment, including the family environment. This is why the story of "Meng Mu Sanyun" has been passed down to this day, and there are "Xinglin Family", "Liyuan Family" and "Education Family".

What is the best family education? Personally, I don't think there is a universal truth, only the educational method suitable for my children is the best. The following suggestions are for reference:

We must admit the fact that every child has advantages and disadvantages. Even emperors and princes were not as perfect as described in biographies when they were young. At the same time, each child's personality, interests, IQ, EQ and values are different, which is related to both acquired education and congenital inheritance.

We must treat our children's strengths and weaknesses calmly, and never compare our children's weaknesses with other children. Some parents feel that their children are useless, which is absolutely blind. If you open your mind, you will definitely find the bright spot in your child. This is the starting point for establishing parent-child relationship and starting family education.

In the family, whether living or studying, children should do what they can. Adults can help, but not everything. This is a basic principle. Arrangements will breed laziness and dependence, which is very unfavorable to children's growth.

Doing your own thing can cultivate children's autonomy, find self-confidence and sense of accomplishment in the process of doing things, analyze the reasons in failure, and know the problems.

Raising children and accepting setbacks is not laissez-faire, but targeted stocking, so that children can enter nature, society, participate in voluntary service activities, do what they can, experience the hardships and fun of labor, and receive frustration education.

Through stocking, let children understand the difficulty of life, the value of labor and the difficulty of success, and let children gradually become confident and brave in setbacks.

Example is better than words. Parents' words and deeds, every move and daily life will have a subtle influence on children. It is hard for us to imagine that parents gamble and play mahjong every day, can their children be well? Parents watch TV every day, can children study hard?

The above is my understanding of this problem, I hope I can help you.

I have read the ancient family instructions of Yan family and the family instructions of Zhu family. In modern times, I have read the family instructions of Zeng Guopan, Liang Qichao and Fu Lei. Recently, I also paid attention to the growth story of the famous historical and cultural scholar Roman. Reading these classic letters and the process of the growth of famous people, I am filled with emotion.

What kind of family education is good in today's society?

First, provide a good educational environment.

In ancient times, there were stories about "Meng Mu's Three Movements" and "The iron pestle was ground into a needle", which best illustrated that the environment played a vital role in a person's growth. As the saying goes, "those who are near ink are black, and those who are near ink are black", and the living environment will affect children invisibly. Parents often quarrel, and children love to quarrel; Parents smoke and drink, and children may also smoke and drink; Parents play mobile phones all day, and children also love to play mobile phones; Parents often call names, and children love to call names. ...

Therefore, providing children with a healthy, civilized, harmonious and positive family environment is the first step of family education. With a good educational environment, children will naturally be influenced by what they hear and see, love my house and my dog, and cultivate healthy psychological quality.

Second, set a positive example.

Roman became the youngest cultural scholar in history, which is inseparable from the example set by her parents when she was young. Parents who come from ordinary families but love books have set an example of reading in Roman's heart and have always inspired her to grow up.

"My father just wants to be your shadow. I want to help you and protect you anytime and anywhere, but I don't want you to get tired of this shadow. " ; "Although life is so cruel, we still have to try to change ourselves, giving people less pain and more happiness." (Excerpted from Fu Lei's letter) The unpretentious statement reflects the height of his father and sets a good example.

The power of example is infinite, and a good example can provide infinite positive energy.

Third, create a democratic family atmosphere.

Family democracy refers to the democratic interaction between family members and the democratic management of family affairs. It means that in a family, regardless of gender, generation and age, every family member is a participant, decision-maker and executor of family construction and family affairs, and everyone participates, discusses, makes decisions and executes them together. Family democracy means respect, communication and tolerance. Respect every family member and find suitable ways, such as family democratic meetings, so that every family member can speak freely, communicate freely and reach consensus and general will. Give each family member enough living and psychological space.

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Personal opinion, please pay attention to and criticize and correct me!

Family quality education is the beginning of national talent training and the cornerstone of school education and social education! It is also the key to a person's success in marriage.

In the three stages of training, family education is very important.

1, cultivation of memory ability.

People's life, the whole process of understanding things (the world) and the process of dealing with problems are all based on memory ability. The stronger the memory, the stronger the ability to deal with and solve problems.

When is the best time to cultivate memory ability? It's best to start with a blank sheet of paper.

In other words, the baby is a blank sheet of paper. At the initial age when he began to form memories, 2 _ _-6 years old is the most suitable.

This stage is the first stage in which the amount of information and storage in the brain of infants need and form in the process of rational development. In the process of human growth, the information capacity of brain memory plays a leading role.

The cultivation of memory ability at this stage is very important and simple. Only the family can do this and pass on the information to the baby for him or her to remember. Such as eating, walking, even reading and reciting poems.

How to cultivate the memory ability of infants in this period? There are many methods, so I won't list them here. But the school can't.

2, the cultivation of self-confidence

A person can't do anything without self-confidence.

Self-confidence is not only given by schools and society, but also by families.

From 7 years old to 12 years old, it is the most important stage for the formation of life confidence. People who lose self-confidence at this age will have a tortuous road to success in the future, which will have a great impact on their academic performance in the next stage.

How to give children enough confidence and courage to face the future society and life? We must do several things well: give priority to encouragement, criticize reasonably and never give up. Second, clear up the academic obstacles for children and check for gaps. Third, give priority to hard education, do not show off wealth, do not stick to bad habits, and correctly understand the bad phenomena encountered around you.

Why is this age group divided into self-confidence training stages? The main reason is that children of this age haven't completely entered the society from the family environment, so this kind of education can't be tracked by the school and can only rely on the family.

3. Interest cultivation

13 years old to 17 years old, many parents say it is the rebellious period of their children. I don't agree with this statement

It should be said that at this age, people have become accustomed to family and gradually formed a fresh and curious attitude towards society!

It is easy for people of this age to be self-righteous and do things that violate the law. In fact, it is also an adventure test of ambition choice. It is also difficult for schools to know each student's personal hobbies and conduct targeted ambition guidance. Only parents can do this.

How to cultivate the ambition of children of this age? In fact, many parents have done it, such as letting their children go to interest classes and remedial classes after school. But more importantly, parents should know their children's interests and demands, guide them to distinguish right from wrong, good from evil, and don't stagger their friends and go astray.

The road of life is very long. When children depend on their families for survival, family education is very important, which is their life orientation. Children leaving home to enter the society are still inextricably linked with family education.

Having children is the beautiful wish of every family, and the three stages of family education need to be persistent and indispensable!

Welcome to discuss the topic of family education together.

The best family education:

1. is a friend of the child.

2. As a role model for children,

3. It is the guidance of children.

4. Being accompanied by children,

It is an encourager and admirer of every achievement of children.

6. The most important child is yours, not the aunt's or the teacher's.

Lead by example, encourage, spur, guide and explore, praise more and criticize less, for natural and happy growth.

I'm glad to answer this question. First of all, I think the best family education is "It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish". Some parents feel sorry for their children to do what they should do instead of their children, which leads to children wearing clothes and reaching for food in high school. Actually, this time is not good for their growth. Secondly, the education of family background will affect a child's character, accompany him all his life, and may determine his future destiny. Some parents pay more attention to their children's mental growth, and they will take the attitude of friends, not putting too much pressure on their children, giving them free space and escorting their life path. However, some parents will educate their children with the traditional education method of "filial son under the stick". Although children are obedient, their personalities will become passive towards Nuo Nuo, and some sodium lignosulfonate will kill their original innocence. This kind of personality will accompany them all their lives and will also determine the fate of their children. I don't agree with this kind of education. Give your child more space and grow up with him. Companionship is the best gift for children.

What is the best family education? I think the education of love is the best family education. Because the education of love is the most basic and fundamental education in all education.

The essence of family education is not to impart knowledge, but to cultivate and improve the concept of human nature, and love is the most basic and fundamental thing in all kinds of concepts. Love is the most powerful thing in the world. It is necessary for family education to cultivate children's love literacy and love habits from an early age. Inject love into his soul. Love family, society, animals, plants and nature.

With Aiko, his heart will be happy and bright, his mood will be stable, he will not feel frustrated when he studies, he will actively solve problems, and he will not have contradictions or negative factors because of his emotions.

Children with love will know how to get along when they enter the society, and often look at problems from the perspective of others. Be tolerant, understand, reduce contradictions, and get better respect from others accordingly.

A caring child is happy at heart and full of spirit. He will be full of hope for life and reflect a positive and optimistic attitude towards life from him. He will infect everyone around him, and at the same time, he will continue to convey his love.

The education of love is both simple and complicated. Not only refers to the care in life, but also starts from dribs and drabs. Accusations and lessons are not desirable. Parents need to be patient and listen to their children's thoughts. What is particularly important is the infection of parents in the family to maintain family harmony. Children should have love, and parents should have love first.

teach by precept and example

The best education is ideological and moral education. Good moral quality is a banner for children to move towards the road of life. It can help and guide children to move in the right direction of life, help a person to establish a correct outlook on life and values, establish a correct moral ideal and goal, distinguish good from evil on the road of life, thus promoting good and restraining evil, and developing a positive, hardworking and optimistic attitude and habit towards life. Can regulate a person's words and deeds in life, know how to treat others in an orderly manner, know how to repay kindness, respect the old and love the young, have a harmonious blind date and be filial to parents. "Heaven rewards diligence, tunnel rewards diligence, humanity rewards diligence, business rewards diligence, and industry rewards diligence". Good moral quality is particularly important for a person's healthy growth and the formation of a good social atmosphere, so it can never be ignored.

The best family education is the example of parents. As the saying goes, parents are the best teachers for children. As a parent, your words and deeds will be remembered by children, and will be imitated and copied by children. Therefore, parents' words and deeds will directly affect children, and whether children have good moral quality and living habits may determine their future. There is a saying: "the dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the son of the mouse can make holes." This is a fact.

The best family education is to create a harmonious family environment and atmosphere for children. Father's love, mother's love and the love of relatives are the spirit and motivation of children's growth, which can make children more responsible and caring and let them know how to be grateful.

The best family education is to cultivate children's hobbies, let them grow freely in their favorite world, and let them set up their own ideals and goals from an early age.

The best education is to have good communication with children and be able to understand the changes of children's thoughts in time so as to guide them in time, encourage them when they are right and correct them when they are wrong. It is necessary to communicate with school teachers, master children's study and life, and let children grow up healthily and happily.

I think the best family education is "example", that is, parents lead by example, both conscious and unconscious.

When it comes to "role models" of parents, a series of words or sentences will pop up in my mind: "imperceptibly", "deeply impressed", "quietly moistened things", "the role of role models is endless", "like father, like son" and "it is better to put on a show than to scream".

Yes, this can illustrate the importance of parents' "role models". Then why should I say that parents' "role models" are the best in family education?

First, the "role model" of parents has its long-term nature.

Research on early education shows that babies begin to learn from their parents when they land, which is an innate ability. This is easy to understand, not only for people, but also for all animals. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, the parents' "teacher" has since settled.

There is a saying in the countryside that "I will never grow up until I die", which means that no matter how old my child is, parents are always worried. I think it's not just worrying, it's still affecting. As long as they are alive, "role models" have more or less effects on children, intentionally or unintentionally.

From the above two aspects, we can see that for decades, two generations have been concentrated in the long river of life, and the "role model" of their parents has always existed.

Second, parents' "role models" are instructive.

As we all know, parents are children's first teachers, so their role as "role models" is often preconceived. Parents' feelings, attitudes and values are the basis for the formation of children's "three views"

At present, when it comes to family education, people often think of learning; When it comes to learning, the first thing that comes to mind is often children's homework and academic performance. In fact, this is a branch of family education. Let's talk about this research. If parents think that learning is useless in their bones, will children have the motivation to learn?

There is also a very interesting saying in the countryside, "the water in the front yard does not flow into the backyard", which means that one generation follows the practice of the previous generation and is passed down from generation to generation. Every generation's behavior will have the shadow of the previous generation. For example, if parents are not filial to their parents, there will be children with a heart of stone.

Conclusion:

The objects of family education are different, and the applicable methods are different, but family education still has its laws to follow. I hope my point of view can inspire everyone.