Dear parents:
Parents, you are very welcome to attend the parents' meeting of your children. Time flies, in a blink of an eye, I have been getting along with my children for almost a school year. I couldn't tell who was who when I first entered the class, but now every child can remember it vividly. This is also my mental journey. To tell you the truth, I look at every child in Class One (1), regardless of height, size and thinness, who is so pleasing to the eye and cute, just more beautiful than other classmates. Children are their hobbies, and students are also their hobbies.
So our first link today is to emphasize-safety.
Safety work is the top priority of all work. For primary school students, safety work is particularly important. Therefore, whether at school or at home, students should be given safety education. Let every child go to school happily and go home safely. As summer approaches, drowning prevention is an eternal topic, and parents should never ignore it. Considering safety, parents should finish two parent reports today, using black carbon pens, and remember to hand them in after the meeting. In addition, I would like to thank Zibin and Junhui, two parents, who helped each family in the class to complete the network security knowledge contest with three accounts, and both of them got 100 points. They also participated in the school traffic knowledge writing contest this afternoon on behalf of the parents in the class. Let's express our thanks with applause. Thank you two beauties!
First of all, it introduces the general situation of the class.
There are now 47 children in the class, including 26 boys and 2 1 girls. It is the class with the largest number of boys in the whole grade. After more than one semester, I have deep feelings with my children. I think the children in our class are very smart and have a gift for learning. The key is whether they have tried. Except for a few classmates, all the other children in the class are excellent, and many children have outstanding advantages. Since it is only the first grade, it is not too late for backward children to dare to catch up, so today I will not divide children into three or six grades, because every child has unlimited potential and can do his best. The key is whether children take their studies seriously. I hope that after the parent-teacher conference today, with the cooperation of parents, all the children in the class are the best.
Summary of mid-term exam results
In this mid-term exam, there are 18 people with Chinese scores above 90, and 15 people with Chinese scores above 80. Maximum score 100. We have handed out all the papers, so parents can evaluate their children's level. At the same time, I don't want parents to judge heroes by their scores. Scores can only be used as a reference for evaluating children. What's the difference between a child with a score of 90 and a child with a score of 100? It's not simply explained by the score. We need to analyze specifically whether the child made a mistake, was careless and didn't work hard, or had a different way of thinking, or had a poor psychological quality. We should educate children to learn from failures and learn to "learn from mistakes and gain wisdom".
2. Students' learning and school performance
Love to think in class, and actively raise their hands to speak:
Excellent grades, able to listen attentively in class, but not enthusiastic enough to speak, and the voice to answer questions is also small:
Smart and flexible, sometimes you can raise your hand to speak in class, but the students who often desert are:
These students are very lively and lovely, flexible and smart.
However, due to young age and poor self-control, the result is not ideal, so we need to redouble our efforts:
Step 3 develop good habits
As the saying goes: "If the land is not planted for one year, the children will not be taught for life." The three-character scripture also says, "It is the father's fault that the son doesn't teach. The teaching is not strict and the teacher is lazy. " This shows the importance of family education. But in the usual contact with parents, I found that family education is really a weak link in education. Many parents think that education is entirely a school matter. In fact, parents are the lifelong teachers of children.
1) study habits
1, develop a correct reading and writing posture:
We should realize the importance of reading and writing posture in the enlightenment stage, which not only protects the healthy development of the body, but also protects the eyesight. If the text is mispronounced, it can be rewritten, but once the bad reading and writing posture is finalized, it is difficult to change it. Therefore, from the first day of school, it is necessary to give standardized requirements for reading and writing postures, strict training, meticulousness and perseverance. Knowing this, parents can supervise and guide their children at home. Correct reading posture, correct reading posture. Don't read if the posture is wrong, and don't write if the posture is wrong.
Step 2 learn to tidy up your schoolbag
Teach children to pack their schoolbags, insist on letting them do it themselves, and cultivate a sense of responsibility-only guide, not change people. Sorting out schoolbags is a matter for students and an effective way to cultivate children's sense of responsibility. The process of sorting out schoolbags is a process of (anti-) thinking, as well as a process of psychological preparation (what learning activities today are all well prepared) and a process of cultivating good habits. Parents should invest some time to urge their children to implement it seriously. Once the habit is formed, children benefit and adults are relieved. In the past, some children found out what books they had forgotten at home in class the next day, and when they handed in their homework, they found that they had forgotten to put their schoolbags last night-sorting schoolbags is also very learned. When all stationery and books are put into the schoolbag, they should be placed in a certain order. If the schoolbag is layered, the textbook exercise book and pencil box can be separated. If there is no layering, they should be sorted and easily taken out. For another example, when you put your textbook and exercise book into your schoolbag, be careful not to curl corners and corners.
Step 3 cherish school supplies
Educate students to take good care of their stationery, books and pencil boxes and keep them clean and tidy. Try to cover the textbook with a book cover. The book cover should be neatly written to help students write their names, only the school, subject, class and name, so as to be concise and generous. Pay attention to the neatness of the homework paper, don't scribble, and wash the eraser often.
2), behavior habits
1, no littering.
Our school has always paid attention to the construction of school spirit and style of study. There will be routine requirements at school, and parents will be required to cooperate outside school. Example: The school requires students not to litter at any time and any place. A piece of waste paper, thrown in the classroom, your behavior represents an individual class; Therefore, from the first day of school, we should form the good habit of "no littering" and take it as a major event. It is often found that some students are surrounded by waste paper and sundries on the ground. Parents need to be strict at home.
2. Be polite. Educate students to say hello when they meet their teachers. Don't underestimate the good news. Take the initiative to establish prestige among classmates, effectively enhance self-confidence and participate in school life more happily.
When you get home, you take the initiative to say hello to your parents, which is also a sign of filial piety. At the same time, it is also conducive to strengthening the feelings between you and your children.
3. Rest on time. Parents should control their children's rest time, especially at night. They should not be allowed to play and sleep late, especially from Sunday to Thursday. Children must go to bed at eight o'clock, because a day's study is not easy for them, whether mentally or physically. It is very important to ensure ten hours' sleep.
4. Eat a hearty breakfast. In the past, I got up very late, but I still went to the kindergarten to have breakfast. Now I want to go to bed early and get up early, have a good breakfast and eat well. Only in this way can we cope with the physical exertion in the whole morning and ensure the healthy growth and development of the body. I certainly don't want to go to school without breakfast, or I can have a snack on the way. Parents take the lead and children will follow closely, which is also an effective way to cultivate children's will quality.
5 Cultivate children's good habit of not eating snacks.
Develop a good habit of doing your own thing. This way, parents can also worry.
The cultivation of habits is a complex and meticulous systematic project, with high requirements, heavy tasks, long time and slow results. As long as he is a conscientious person, he must be patient and methodical, and he will be satisfied in the end.
Fourth, create a good learning environment.
Family is the first school where children grow up, and parents are their first teachers. The quality of family environment directly affects whether children grow up healthily. Good does not mean that the family environment is rich, but that the family style is good. Psychologists say: children will learn to condemn if they live with criticism; If children live in hostility, they learn to be aggressive; When children live with encouragement, they will learn to be confident; If children live in a popular environment, they will learn to like others; If children live in friendship, they will feel what a wonderful world they live in. Adults should not talk loudly, argue or watch TV around children when they are doing their homework.
Fourthly, I want to talk about the following points in combination with the characteristics of the subjects I teach:
Discipline requirements and training focus:
Let me talk about the requirements for Chinese this semester. The most basic requirements of our Chinese this semester, that is, what every child must do, are:
1, reading requirements: children must also be able to read every text, (parents should also pay attention to this, that is, reading, looking at words instead of reciting. Children have a good memory, and many children can recite the text, indicating that the purpose of reading is to lay the foundation for students to know every word. ) teach students not to delay reading. Reading must be signed every day.
2. Literacy requirements: The new words in the text, that is, Tian Zige's words below the text, and every word in the literacy table at the back of the book must be recognized and read by children. Normal life can also cultivate children's good habit of active literacy.
3 job requirements:
(1) Parents should earnestly urge their children to finish their daily homework. Because children's self-control ability is poor, parents' supervision cannot be ignored. The children threw away their schoolbags after school and went to play. When children watch TV or eat while doing their homework, parents should persuade them to turn their attention to their studies. Parents sometimes need to read questions to their children when they do their homework. After reading the question, let the children understand the meaning of the question, but parents should not rush to say the answer, let the children think while doing it. Because the children in grade one don't read much and good study habits are still being developed, parents must sacrifice their time in grade one and don't neglect their homework in order to do business or do their own thing. If you solve children's difficulties every day, they will be more interested in learning, otherwise they will become insecure about learning. If they don't get good grades, they will seek stimulation from other sources, which will easily lead to many things that should not happen. When he grows up, you can do whatever you want. So please ask parents to spend more time with their children.
(2) Carefully check and sign the children's homework. Parents must check their children's homework to see if the handwriting is clear and clean. If a child's homework is found to be scribbled or even unfinished, parents should ask the child to redo it in time and then sign the parents' names carefully. Asking parents to sign is more than simply signing your parents' names. The key is to check whether the child's homework is correct and urge the child to complete it with good quality and quantity. Especially when doing exercises at home, children can't understand, so parents must help them look at the questions and understand the meaning of the questions. In my opinion, children's homework should be better than classroom homework, because parents only take care of one child's homework at home, while teachers have to take care of 43 children's homework at the same time in class, and there is time limit. Teachers have limited energy in class, even if they look around, they will sometimes be negligent. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to seriously sign and supervise their children's learning.
(3) It is necessary to make rules for family study. For example, don't go out to play after finishing homework, don't eat when writing, don't write when watching TV, don't watch TV if you are not sure what you have learned today, and stick to it from beginning to end every day to form a habit.
4. Cultivate children's ability to speak and communicate with others: communicate with children more, for example, ask children what they learned today every time they go home. What happened at school? Guide children to ask more questions. Children who love to ask questions learn faster and feel less burdened than children who passively accept knowledge. Parents should cultivate their children's habit and ability to ask more questions when reading.
5. Pay attention to supervise and correctly guide children to read more healthy and beneficial extracurricular books. Enriching students' extracurricular knowledge can also improve their reading ability and develop good reading habits. Parents are advised to prepare at least the following books for their children: a fairy tale book, a nursery rhyme, an ancient poem, a famous saying, a quiz, a hundred thousand whys, a dictionary and an idiom reference book. Choose your books carefully, not too many. Let the children watch it several times, digest and absorb it, and read the taste. Children in the first grade of primary school are limited by age and knowledge and have poor self-control. Parents should choose different reading methods according to their children's situation, such as reading with children, reading with children, or reading to children. Chinese teaching is nothing more than listening, speaking, reading and writing, so it is also very important for children to listen. Don't refuse: "Find it yourself!" It is best to read the story books that children want to read to him, and don't force children to accept the choices of adults. Children who don't like reading hate to see a lot of small print. Parents can choose a picture book with a large font suitable for their children.
6. Let children develop the habit of active learning at home. Just as babies can stand up and walk on their own, children can work hard, think for themselves and solve things they don't understand. With "self-study ability", they have the motivation to move forward all their lives, which is also the most important "self-cultivation ability" in education. Such children will naturally study hard spontaneously and independently, and will not feel that learning is very hard. As parents, we should pay attention to praise and encourage children, so that children can gradually develop the habit of active learning.
Finally, I will tell you a fable.
Educator William Cunningham said such a fable:
A man is walking in the desert. Suddenly, a voice said to him, "Pick up some pebbles and put them in your pocket. You will be happy and sad tomorrow. "
The man bent down, picked up a handful of pebbles and put them in his pocket.
The next day, when he reached into his pocket, he was surprised to find that it was not pebbles, but diamonds, emeralds and rubies. He felt very happy and soon felt very sorry. He was glad that he took some pebbles, but he regretted not taking more.
The same is true of education. How parents educate their children today will make them what they will become tomorrow. Habits are like pebbles. If you cultivate more good habits for your children now, tomorrow's children will get diamonds, emeralds and rubies. At that time, as a parent, you will be as happy and sorry as this person in the fable. Fortunately, your child has some good habits, but unfortunately, you can actually cultivate more good habits for your child. So, why not pick up more pebbles for children from today? Tomorrow, these pebbles will become the wealth of the child's life and make him happy all his life.
Above, I talked about my own ideas, and I also asked my parents to criticize and correct my mistakes. I sincerely hope that in the future, we can have more in-depth exchanges, more pleasant cooperation and sincere friendship.
Finally, I want to send two words to my parents, hoping to encourage them.
The first sentence: children are the mirrors of parents and teachers. There are no children who can't teach well, only bad educational methods.
The second sentence: whoever pays more attention to children's details will make greater progress, and details determine the success or failure of education.
I believe that with our joint efforts, our children will thrive. I wish every parent and friend a dream come true! May every child of ours become a dragon and a phoenix! Thank you!