12-year-old children have not yet reached the point of deep heart. Your so-called "extreme disgust" doesn't know what it is. But whatever the performance, the first point is to find the reason: why do you hate it? What is the reason? Just like Chinese medicine, it must be dialectical to treat.

So, the first step: find the reason, which requires your patience, observation and even skillful questioning; The second step is to prescribe the right medicine according to the cause.

These two steps are not too difficult to operate. The difficult thing is to keep a normal state of mind. Don't be disgusted or even angry at the sight of your daughter's "disgust". Only when you calm down can you solve the problem.

The above content was originally provided by Ai Habo, focusing on family education.