Teenagers 1 approach to educational problems, parents really have to put down their bodies.

Some parents always like to be dignified in front of their children and are used to treating their children with the above attitude. In this regard, I especially suggest that parents really put down their posture and respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a commanding tone and respect their children as adults. Don't always tell the children? No? Instead, give children multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions.

2. Praise children's diversity and randomness.

If you give various forms of verbal praise, they will be more attractive. Think of a moment like this. Every day when someone meets you, they will tell you in the same tone and posture? Hi! ? You may be slowly distracted by other things. However, if that person is more inspiring or asks you questions, you may become more involved. What if every time a child does something right? Well done, huh? At this time, praise will lose its meaning. He will think that you are just habitually praising him. Diversifying your compliments will make your children feel that your compliments are sincere.

3. Know your children and trust them.

Children grow up and pay more attention to privacy. Some parents peeked at their children's diaries and found some secrets of their children. They couldn't hold their breath and flew into a rage. This is the most unwise way to educate children. If you think that only by reading your child's diary can you understand what the child is thinking, that's fine, but it's best not to get angry, let yourself calm down, analyze the reasons and think about ways to deal with it. And most importantly, don't let your child know that you have seen something she doesn't want to see. Otherwise, it is easy for her to have a crisis of trust in you and have a rebellious mentality.

Causes of children's rebellious psychology 1. Children test their parents' bottom line.

Children test the patience of adults through this verbal and behavioral resistance. He wants to know how adults will react to his contradictions and resistance, and also tells adults: I am not a child anymore. ?

Parents must clearly show their attitude when they encounter the contradiction and resistance of their children's bottom line, whether they are allowed or not, they must be thoroughly implemented. In addition to dangerous and unprincipled things, children should be given more rights to do what they want.

2, parents and children lack two-way communication, resulting in ideological contradictions.

As children grow up, their sense of independence becomes stronger and stronger. They need to have their own way of doing things, and they don't want to be controlled too much. Some parents do everything for their children's protection, so that children's desire for independence and parents' improper kindness and care will lead to ideological conflicts and contradictions. Maybe some parents seldom talk to their children because of their busy work, and just make some strict rules to restrain their children's behavior. Therefore, children who lack communication with their parents are prone to rebellious psychology and behavior.

The performance of adolescent rebellion is 1, which is an unreasonable denial of role models and advanced figures.

In the process of education, some educators and parents hope to educate teenagers and children through some advanced figures or some touching stories, hoping to arouse their enthusiasm or achieve the purpose of encouraging the backward. But sometimes the result is just the opposite. Some advanced figures are described by these teenagers as fishing for fame? Speculator? Or? Fool? They will doubt the motives of these advanced figures for no reason or deny them. For classmates or role models around them, what is that called? Kiss up? Give rejection or ridicule.

2. Rebellious children don't want to express their feelings.