In fact, every parent is eager to be a qualified and successful parent. Behind every successful person, there is a successful parent and a qualified parent. As children grow up day by day, every parent should study and grow up with their children; Learn new ideas, new knowledge and new methods of family education. Family education is a science, not self-study. The success or failure of family education is related to parents' social status, economic level and cultural accomplishment, but it does not mean that their successful parents will certainly cultivate successful children.
Being a parent is not difficult. When he (she) has children, he (she) naturally becomes parents, and he (she) becomes parents. Now, due to the improvement of living standards, we will invest a lot of energy in children's physical and physiological aspects, so that children can be born more smoothly, have more nutrition and grow healthier. But in addition to this kind of physical and physical education, it is equally important to cultivate moral quality, psychological quality, cultural accomplishment and behavior habits.
As we know, parents are the first educators that children will face from birth, and teachers are only when children go to school. Judging from the process of children's growth, family education is fundamental, because the formation of children's character is influenced by the family to a greater extent.
In the investigation of some problem children, it is found that problem children often have some personality defects. Personality defects are often formed at home before going to school. In other words, parents' behavior and parents' attitude towards education directly affect the formation of children's personality, and personality is the basis for everyone to stand on the society. From this perspective, the importance of family education is obvious.
Parents, let's ask a simple question. When you become a parent and go to work, what do you use to educate your children? Are you qualified? Just like the driver has a driver's license, have you obtained the evidence?
Only when the child has a problem, looking back, will he find himself an unqualified parent. Think about it. Do parents usually pay attention to cultivating children's good habits or correcting bad habits? Nowadays, many parents focus on fighting against their children's bad habits. Because in the process of children's growth, parents have given their children a lot of bad influences and made them take many detours. Any detour will affect their smooth growth and leave some traces in their hearts. If parents study ahead of time, their children will take fewer detours in their growth.
From this point of view, not every parent is born qualified. We think that unqualified parents are not uneducated people, but people who don't understand family education. So every parent should study hard and savor it.
1On October 23rd, the 31st meeting of the 13th NPC Standing Committee in People's Republic of China (PRC) passed the People's Republic of China (PRC) Family Education Promotion Law, which is the first time that China has made special legislation on family education. The promulgation of this law not only requires parents to "take care of their children according to law", but also helps to form a joint force of school education, family education and social education to promote the healthy growth of children's body and mind.
A good family style is inseparable from a good family education, which is the starting point for children to establish a correct world outlook and values. Parents should regard their children as equal persons with independent personalities, respect their personality development and find a growth law that suits them, so as to better cultivate their children. Article 5 of People's Republic of China (PRC) Family Education Promotion Law stipulates that family education should meet the following requirements: respecting the laws of physical and mental development of minors and individual differences; Respecting the personal dignity of minors and protecting their privacy and personal information ... highlights the state's support and service for family education, and embodies the key responsibility and scientificity of family education. The purpose of legislation is to guide parents to establish a good concept of educating people, establish a good family style and tutor, and cooperate with the three parties inside and outside the school to promote the better implementation of the "double reduction" policy.
The Family Education Promotion Law makes the responsibilities and obligations that families and society need to perform more detailed and instructive, and realizes the operability of family education. As parents, we should study this law seriously, take care of the baby scientifically in strict accordance with the law and take care of the baby according to law. I think we should do the following:
First, set an example.
Children are very imitative, so parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds, do not bring work pressure and emotions to their children, and influence their children with good behavior. We should adopt positive education and communication methods when encountering things. When encountering some negative effects, we should discuss and communicate with our children to promote their ability to judge right and wrong.
Second, create an environment.
Nowadays, children are under increasing pressure to study and study. As parents, they should try their best to create a good learning environment for their children and let them concentrate on their studies in a comfortable environment. Try not to disturb children when they are studying. If possible, you can choose to read books and newspapers quietly around your child, or do some housework that does not affect your child's study. You can discuss learning problems with your children and communicate with them about their growth.
Third, empathy.
Empathy is to exchange roles with children, treat children as themselves and treat themselves as children; Look at things from the child's point of view, think about problems, and understand the child's feelings and difficulties, so that you can avoid your wrong intuition and judgment and affect what is happening now. Parents should learn to empathize, learn to do things, and learn to be human. We should respect and trust children, learn more about them, change our hearts and win their trust with trust. In daily life, through careful observation, heart-to-heart conversation, careful care and patient help, we should learn more about children's growth troubles and spiritual needs. Never compare your child's shortcomings with other children's advantages, compare your child's progress today with yesterday's shortcomings, and compare your child's efforts today with tomorrow's achievements. Whenever you encounter difficulties, encourage comfort and help your child find confidence.
Parents' impressions after reading Family Education Promotion Law 3. By watching the Family Education Promotion Law, we can understand the significance of related family education, and cultivate, guide and influence their moral quality, physical quality, life skills, cultural accomplishment and behavior habits. Regulating parents' behavior is the bottom line. Good parents don't depend on their academic qualifications or their sense of responsibility. Companionship is the responsibility of setting an example, and it is also the responsibility. To be a parent is to be responsible for the children.
Children's growth needs parents' "three teachings and nine streams", family education, school education and social education, and social education is a great guarantee for our family education. Respect the law of physical and mental development of minors and individual servants; Respect the personal dignity of minors and protect their privacy and personal information; Follow the educational characteristics of families and implement scientific educational concepts and methods.
Family education, school education and social education are closely integrated and coordinated. May 15 every year is the national family education publicity week, and it is also the International Family Day.
As parents, they should set an example, communicate effectively with their children, and be good at listening to their ideas, so as to give them targeted care and help.
Parents' views on reading the Family Education Promotion Law 4. I have benefited a lot from watching the experts' interpretation of the Family Education Promotion Law online, and I feel that my education for my children is still lacking. At the same time, I also realize the importance of family education in the process of children's growth. We should return to family responsibilities, work hand in hand with children, grow together and create a better future.
First, parents are children's first teachers.
The quality of family education will directly affect the healthy growth of children. A family can only be harmonious if the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, and it can provide a good environment for children. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, we should strive to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others.
Second, the organic combination of family and school.
Family education is the foundation and foundation of education. Without good family education, it is difficult to establish a good school education. Of course, school education in turn affects family education. I think parents should actively participate in their children's family education, communicate with teachers more, find a balance between school and family, and organically combine school education with family education to achieve the best effect of education. Children spend more time at school than at home, and spend more time with classmates and teachers. Every child's performance at home and school will be different. Through communication with teachers, we can learn more about children, their habits and performances, learn from each other's strengths in time, and the interaction of classmates and the encouragement of teachers will affect their growth. The growth of children must rely on the joint efforts of families and schools.
Third, cultivate children's self-care ability.
Parents' emphasis on children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether parents' concern and education methods are correct is first of all a matter of concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is extremely important to cultivate children to love labor and form good habits. Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's good qualities and abilities such as independence, responsibility, self-confidence and willpower.
Today, I have benefited a lot from my short study time, but how to really "take care of the baby according to law" has a long way to go. As parents, we should understand the truth behind the law more attentively, work hard with the school and grow up with our children.
Parents who study the Family Education Promotion Law realize that the arrival of the Spring Festival holiday gives us time to stop and get along with our children seriously. Through the related learning videos of family education, and the actual situation of getting along with children during this time. As a parent, I also have some things to share in detail:
1. Grasping habits requires the supervision of parents. During the holidays, parents have enough time to get along with their children. They can use this time to guide and supervise their children's life, study and behavior habits in a planned way, such as eating and dressing themselves. These things that adults usually help more can now be done by children themselves. There are also many problems in kindergarten mood and class status, which can also be strictly corrected during the holidays in order to have a good performance in the new semester.
2, strengthen emotional communication with children, no child will like grumpy parents, children's growth requires parents to have enough patience. If the child doesn't do well, don't hit him, give him encouragement and experience the meaning of persistence with the child. We should also pay attention to methods, entertain and educate, and explore learning methods suitable for children. Another way to strengthen emotional communication is to read picture books. Parents can understand their children's inner world through reading, and children can also learn a lot from books and resonate with their parents emotionally.
Finally, I want to say: children will not grow up as their parents think. But will grow up according to their parents' own ideas. Therefore, as parents, ask less of their children and more of themselves. If you want your child to grow up in the future, parents should be strict with themselves and set a good example for their children.
Parents who have read the Family Education Promotion Law are aware that the Family Education Law has greatly promoted the transformation of family education to the direction of the rule of law. This law also reflects the direction of future education, which lies in the educational goal of leading and driving, with socialist core values as the main content and moral education as the fundamental task. The implementation of this law officially shows that family education has risen from the traditional "family affairs" to an important "state affairs" in the new period. I will elaborate the family education law from the following aspects:
First of all, the family education law clearly stipulates who will carry out family education for minors. According to this law, parents or other guardians should establish a sense of responsibility that the family is the first classroom and parents are the first teachers. Parents should bear the main responsibility of family education for minors, and educate minors to develop good thoughts, conduct and habits with correct thoughts, methods and behaviors. Education seems to be the responsibility of schools and teachers. But being in the front line of education, I really realized that behind the problem students, it must be the reason for the lack of family education.
Secondly, the Family Education Law clearly stipulates that it is necessary to implement the requirement of "double reduction" and reduce the workload of students in compulsory education and the burden of off-campus training. Changing the family is only an extension of students' classroom, and parents are only assistants of school teachers, which shows the important position and role of family education. The purpose of this requirement is to liberate family education from the subordinate position of school education and truly realize the mutual cooperation between school education and family education.
At the same time, the law also stipulates that the supervision and management of the implementation of the "double reduction" policy should be strengthened. This law aims to keep children away from the heavy academic pressure after class. As primary and secondary school students in the new era, as children of the party. Although lofty ideals are important, health is the capital of revolution, and the healthy body and mind of minors is also the basis of family education law.
Finally, smooth communication channels between schools and families. Promote the cooperation between school education and family education, and form a joint force of education and family education. So as to break the embarrassing scene of "5+2=0" and reduce parents' incomprehension and disapproval of school work. In terms of minors' after-school life, the law clearly stipulates that their guardians should reasonably arrange the time for minors to study, rest, entertain and exercise, so as to avoid increasing the learning burden of minors and prevent minors from indulging in the Internet. Adhere to five long-term effective management policies for students and teach them how to integrate their spare time. On this basis, parents need to treat students, especially children's academic burden and growth and development more rationally. The vision needs to be more long-term, rather than just focusing on students' short-term achievements and effects.
Personally, family education is the beginning of education, and the concept of family education has a profound impact on what kind of education students will receive in the future and how to receive education. At the same time, minors, as the hope and pillar of the country, their healthy growth and the happiness and tranquility of their families are directly related to national development, national progress and social stability. In a word, the formulation and implementation of the Family Education Promotion Law is the embodiment of the rule of law to vigorously carry forward the family virtues of the Chinese nation, and it is also the guarantee of the rule of law to promote the healthy growth and all-round development of minors.