1, communicate actively.
Give more encouragement and tolerance to children, and parents should not punish and violence immediately after children deny themselves. These behaviors are inappropriate because children have their own inner world. Only by actively communicating with them and letting them learn to express and talk can they listen to their inner world and gain their friendship.
2. Take the initiative to reflect on your behavior.
Reflect on whether there is a problem with your own educational methods. When children have certain rebellious emotions and behaviors, it is possible that children have become particularly independent, eager to be respected and demanding equality. At this time, parents should look at their children with new eyes instead of always looking at their children with old eyes. Only by learning to respect and tolerate can we effectively solve the problem of children's rebellion.
3. learn to accept.
Children's rebellion is often unstoppable. After entering adolescence, they gradually become independent and mature. The first step to maturity is to demand rights and more respect. At this time, it is easy to have contradictions and conflicts with parents, and even disputes over rights. Therefore, parents must learn to be tolerant, encourage their children to have more independence and be responsible for their actions.
Behavior of rebellious children:
1, emotional instability:
He is irritable, unstable and uncontrollable. He is angry and excitable when he is a little unhappy. He often yells at his parents and loses his temper. He always feels that his parents nag, so long as they talk to him, they won't listen, and even slam the door on the table.
2, self-centered:
Rebellious children will show strong self-esteem, and even become self-centered, and will not allow others, especially parents, to have different ideas from themselves.
3. Depression:
Individual children may be depressed, have little language, and do not communicate with teachers, classmates or parents at home. Over time, there may be cases of poor appetite, even listlessness and unwillingness to go to school.
4. Strong vanity:
Compared with others, such as excessive pursuit of famous brands or like to dress up.