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Children's gender education methods
Children's gender education methods

Parents are always very cautious about the methods of gender education for their children, and many parents have a headache about this problem. Parents don't have to rush for success with their children. Cultivating children will make them grow up better in the future. Now share the gender education methods for children.

Methods of sex education for children 1 Why are many parents unwilling to give sex education to their children?

Now many parents know the necessity of sex education for their children, but they are very embarrassed. "It doesn't seem appropriate to tell children this", "Children will naturally understand when they are older" and "I don't know how to speak, which is quite embarrassing" ... which hinders their start.

Many parents are often enthusiastic about other things, but when it comes to sex education, there is always an invisible wall in front of them.

Perhaps parents can't predict that behind this invisible wall, children may have been approached by "wolves and beasts" The embarrassment and embarrassment of parents can put children in deep danger.

Therefore, in the infancy of children, learning a little sexual knowledge and self-protection knowledge can help children stay away from potential harm.

A guide to gender education for children

1. Explain the sex of the child generously.

Many children will ask their parents, where am I from? Why are some children different from me? Children may be curious about this and even watch adults take a bath to satisfy their curiosity. At this time, parents should not overreact and treat this matter with a normal heart. Covering up will only make children more curious. Parents should answer the questions raised by children generously, and it is not a good idea to deliberately hide them.

At present, it is reasonable for some nurseries and kindergartens to share toilets for men and women. Boys and girls sharing toilets can make them aware of the differences between men and women and see different body structures, which is conducive to their gender awareness.

2. Many parents think it's fun. They may dress boys in skirts, cut girls in boys' hairstyles and change their normal clothes. These behaviors are unscientific. In the long run, it is likely to form feminine boys and masculine girls. These children may be rejected and isolated by their friends when they grow up, which is not conducive to their mental health. Therefore, parents should have obvious gender characteristics when dressing up their children.

In addition, fathers play an important role in cultivating boys' masculinity, and girls also need their mothers' company.

Parents should set an example.

Parents' differences will make children aware of gender differences. If the mother often dresses up like a tomboy, then girls may feel vague about the role of women, thus affecting their cognition of gender. Similarly, if dad doesn't show a sense of responsibility and responsibility at home, it is difficult for boys to establish a sense of "manhood". Parents are the guides of children, and their roles and behaviors in the family have great influence on children's gender consciousness. For example, in many families, women are too strong, making decisions or handling things are dominated by women, so boys will worship their mothers more than their fathers. Over time, his gender consciousness will be confused and he will lack the sense of responsibility of men.

What aspects should be paid attention to between relatives of the opposite sex?

1. Try not to take a shower together. It is best for a son to be washed by his father and a daughter to be washed by his mother. Otherwise, it is easy to confuse children's gender awareness.

Try not to undress in front of children. Some parents don't shy away from changing clothes for their children at home. Children are curious about the opposite sex, but they need to be guided and educated slowly to understand this knowledge, instead of showing it directly to children when changing clothes.

3. Try not to take children to the bathroom and dressing room of the opposite sex. This is a problem for many mothers. Taking my son to the ladies' bathroom and dressing room for the convenience of taking the child will not only bring trouble to others, but also affect the child's gender awareness.

Many parents may think that this is a trivial matter and there is nothing to avoid. In fact, it is very important to educate children about gender awareness from an early age.

Children's gender education methods 2 Parents should pay special attention to their children's gender education.

What is the significance of children's gender education?

Children's understanding of gender is easily influenced by the external environment, so gender education is necessary. Parents' performance in daily life makes children have the earliest understanding of gender. Among them, the first and most important step is "gender identity". Harmonious gender environment and gender power jointly affect gender identity. If mom and dad can support each other, children will have correct and obvious gender characteristics when they grow up, and they will be more aware of their gender roles. Nowadays, many girls tend to be careless and aggressive, while boys are suspicious and sensitive, which violates gender characteristics and ways of doing things and seriously affects their interpersonal communication in society, especially between the opposite sex. The Internet and media era have a far-reaching influence on children, but the information in them is mixed, which may even interfere with the healthy growth of children. Therefore, it is of great significance to educate children about gender awareness as soon as possible and establish a correct view of gender for the formation of their outlook on life and values in the future.

How to carry out gender education

1, change the traditional gender concept and provide children with tolerant development space.

Men and women are no longer defined in their own narrow development space. Our kindergarten staff, especially the front-line teachers, should start from the psychological differences of children and encourage boys to be careful and combine static and dynamic; Encourage girls to be brave and strong, and do more exploration. Encourage children to try different things as much as possible, gain a variety of social role experiences, and enhance their understanding of people, life and society. In this way, both men and women can live in a vast world and let the flowers of individual thoughts bloom freely.

2. Carefully select children's textbooks and children's books.

3. Carefully design children's games and pay attention to the transmission of game materials.

The design of children's games inadvertently implies the gender awareness of our children's workers, and plays a strengthening role in children's gender awareness.

4. Strengthen family unity and jointly promote the healthy development of children's gender cognition.

Gender education in the family also plays an important role in the process and development of children's gender cognition. To some extent, it may even be more important than gender education in kindergartens. While changing the traditional gender concept of kindergarten staff, we should also do a good job of communication with parents according to the actual situation, so that parents can change the old gender concept as much as possible and understand the importance of good, healthy and relaxed gender education to children from an early age.