We say that parents should pay more because:
First, primary and secondary school teachers often "wear several hats".
They should not only undertake the responsibility of teaching and educating people, but also deal with other daily affairs of students at school to ensure their safety. For many teachers, the usual teaching tasks are already very heavy, not to mention the large number of students and the constant incidents.
Generally speaking, a family only needs to train one or two children, and basically puts all the focus on the children.
But in school, teachers can't just focus on one student like parents. Therefore, there will always be good students and bad students in the same class. For teachers, this is normal. I didn't say that the teacher was irresponsible and the students were left out.
Third, in fact, parents are the most important teachers for children.
Family education plays a very important role in children's life. Children's earliest family education affects their initial cognition of themselves and the world, and also provides a foundation for children to receive other education. In addition, family education lasts for a long time, so its effect is lasting. If children do not receive a good family education and form good living habits and study habits, it will be difficult for them to adapt to formal school life.
We say teachers should pay more because:
First of all, teaching is the task of teachers.
Teachers are professional teachers. Educating students well is not only a job responsibility, but also a requirement of teaching ability. Parents' educational level and ability are uneven, so they need to communicate with teachers on an equal footing.
Second, parents have paid a lot, even in excessive responsibility.
No matter who the parents are, most parents are not only responsible parents, but also in excessive responsibility and extreme anxiety. No matter whether they get into a prestigious school or not, in order to give their children "more effort" and "less trouble", most parents will do what the teacher says and actively cooperate with various activities and "work" arranged by the school.
Third, teachers spend more time with their children.
An ordinary pupil will go to school for self-study at 7: 00 every morning, and will not get home until around 5: 00 in the afternoon, not to mention the time to do his homework. In fact, once children go to school, they usually spend more time with their teachers than with their parents. Therefore, it is easier for teachers to change children and educate them.
Is the teacher important or the parents important? This topic is like Fudan examination questions: Which is bigger, the Jade Emperor or the Tathagata? This is a problem that cannot be chosen, because the relationship between them is to perform their respective duties, complement each other and be indispensable. It's a pity to lose everyone.
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There are two indispensable roles in children's growth. One is a parent and the other is a teacher.
Parents are the first teachers for children to come into this world. Children's healthy growth can not be separated from parents' parenting education, which is irreplaceable by any other role and is an indispensable education for children's healthy growth. Children begin to receive the "enlightenment education" from their parents imperceptibly from birth. Children spend more time with their families before going to school, especially in early childhood, which is basically influenced by the people who take care of the child.
However, it is easy for parents to fall into some misunderstandings. Overindulgence of children will make children rely on coquetry and have poor self-discipline. When children arrive at kindergarten, primary school, junior high school and senior high school, the role of teachers is obvious, and teachers play a great guiding role. But after all, teachers are faced with fifty or sixty students, and no matter how responsible they are to the whole class, their strength will be reduced.
For many students, the teacher's words, eyes and gestures are very important to children. Then it is more important to treat students' ideas and concepts. Teachers always encourage children, be good at discovering their advantages, and come up with some fresh ideas to make students love learning. I met a good and responsible teacher, not to say how much knowledge I instilled in my children, but to teach them how to learn.
There is no doubt that a good teacher plays an important role in children's growth, both academically and psychologically. Teachers are professional educators. Sometimes, when parents who teach beginners know how to educate their children, they have missed the growth process of their children. Teachers, on the other hand, deal with children. They know better than anyone the law of children's growth and the education they need.
Parents want teachers to pay more, which is actually the expectation of the education system, a trust and a sustenance for teachers. Teachers want parents to pay more, in fact, they want parents to care more about their children and give them a complete education with the school.
In the education of children, parents give priority to counseling to create a relaxed family atmosphere and an atmosphere of interactive communication. Teachers are mainly guided, responsible for correcting children's bad habits and problems, and guiding children to recognize and digest knowledge. The two sides are complementary, so that children can receive a more perfect education, and both parents and teachers are indispensable. Both are important, and no one is more important.