The real success is the success of the finish line, not the speed of starting, because life is a long endurance race, not a sprint; Personalized education is the real education. The so-called success means that every child will develop his personality to the extreme. The outlet and breakthrough of education crisis can be found here. I don't recommend sending children abroad or prestigious schools, but I agree that boys can start from a low starting point. In fact, parents who tried their best to send their children to key high schools all sent their children to ordinary high schools after listening to our suggestions. The children began to struggle from the bottom, embarked on a journey of self-discovery, and also showed a good development trend with full stamina. -famous education expert Ringer (author of "Lifelong Education" series and "Journey of Self-discovery for Excellent Teenagers"). Lawrence Yu's life experience is meaningful to students, because his experience can be copied. -Tang Xudong, secretary of the Youth League Committee of Shanghai Institute of Foreign Trade, the protagonist in the book is not one of the best in China's educational model, but it has developed very well. It can be seen from this case that when education can pay attention to the individual differences of educational objects; Can provide personalized and diversified choices; Can meet people's various development needs; When we can measure it with an extra ruler, the object of education will usher in a different life. Therefore, I think this is a good book for educators and parents to read. This book is about attaching importance to physical exercise and making children "experience tenacity, tenacity, self-confidence, wisdom, free and easy, courage and team spirit from sports", which is very enlightening for parents who overemphasize their children's intellectual development. When choosing a university, the hero in the book doesn't value famous brands, but chooses a university that suits him, because he knows what he likes and wants, and equally importantly, he knows what he is not good at. This can alert those who think that as long as they enter a prestigious school, they are equal to success. Savor this book carefully and inspire me as an educator and parent. —— Wu Fengqin, Vice President of No.11 Middle School of Beijing High School Model School. This is a book suitable for middle school students and college students, which is of great reading value. I hope this book can attract more parents and teachers to pay attention to the problem of students' education overdraft, pay attention to students' learning "pain index", and then think about what is real quality education, or how to improve students' soft ability as mentioned in the book. What a nice horseshoe! Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher, warned us: "Know yourself." In a sense, education is to help everyone find themselves, as this book says, find their best match and then realize themselves. -Yan Yinxian Beijing High School Model School 10 1 Special Chinese teacher in middle school, one of the most popular guests in Face-to-Face Education, which I think has a lot to do with the soft power mentioned in the book. From him, we can see his early guidance in sports spirit, moral sense, public welfare spirit, fighting ability and personal mentality, which laid a solid foundation for his success with full stamina. -Hong Yan, the host of "Face to Face Education" on Beijing People's Broadcasting Station, I read Lawrence's book with great interest, which describes his growth path to today's achievements. His personality perfectly combines the essence of Chinese and American cultures: team spirit, friendliness, easygoing, curious, thoughtful, energetic and charming. I hope Lawrence's experience can help many students and their parents who are eager to enter Harvard Business School. -Li Jin, an associate professor at Harvard Business School. What kind of person can win the finish line? How to cultivate core competitiveness? Read this book as soon as possible, think about these problems as soon as possible, and don't "win" for a while and lose your life! -Kevin Tu, president of Happy Brothers Company and author of the famous career guidance book Happy Classroom, is successful largely because he likes to think independently, has the indomitable spirit of turning this thinking and ideal into reality, and always seeks the simplest and most scientific way to achieve his goals. This character of independent thinking, perseverance and emphasis on methods comes from the influence of his father. Therefore, this book not only inspires the growth of young people, but also inspires parents. -beijing language and culture university Professor Zhou Siyuan As the father of two children, I want to share my experience with readers. In my eyes, Zhibo's spirit of never being afraid of difficulties, never giving up and being proactive is worth learning from young people at home and abroad. There are always ups and downs and stops on the road of life, but it seems to be an unchangeable law that rainbows will shine after rain. "Success requires hard work", isn't that our motto? -Lin Jianping, a professor at the Chinese University of Hong Kong, has a wonderful experience with GMAT in his book. I am a student who has been tested for many years. I never thought that exams would have such benefits. I strongly recommend every student to read it, and teachers and parents will be deeply inspired after reading it. -a key university teacher I don't want to apply for Harvard or go to a prestigious school, but I like this book and put it on my pillow. It is not only beautiful, but more importantly, it inspires me calmly and lets me know a truth from the bottom of my heart: everyone can be wonderful and successful. A high school student has never had a book that really cheers for boys from the heart like this one! -A boy's mother Now that boys are getting smaller and smaller, she needs such a book to set an example for them. Also, educational inspirational books have never been so sincere! I strongly recommend reading this book. -A college psychological counselor savored this book-Wu Fengqin, vice president of No.11 Middle School of Beijing Normal University High School, has been teaching for 23 years. Whenever he sees the phrase "can't lose at the starting line", he always feels that from the perspective of education, it is neither scientific nor in line with the law of human growth, and it is easy to mislead parents; The so-called "can't lose at the starting line" is because the evaluation is single and too utilitarian. In the long course of life, experiencing failures and setbacks is the only way to grow up. No one's dreams and dreams develop in a straight line. The protagonist in the book is not one of the best in China's educational model, but it develops well. It can be seen from this case that when education can pay attention to the individual differences of educational objects; Can provide personalized and diversified choices; Can meet people's various development needs; When we can measure it with an extra ruler, the object of education will usher in a different life. Therefore, I think this is a good book for educators and parents to read. The hero in the book always has a grateful heart, thanking his parents for cultivating his good exercise habits, and thanking his grandparents for their respect and care for his young mind. I think this is a miniature of China's Confucian value system, which is similar to mutual help and dedication advocated in western values. The book tells the story of the hero's good habit of cultivating his children's love of sports because his parents pay attention to physical exercise, which makes him quickly integrate into the local student team, become the main force of the school basketball game, and become the pride of the school and the local area. As the book says, "You can appreciate tenacity, tenacity, self-confidence, wisdom, free and easy, courage and team spirit from sports", which is of great inspiration to parents who overemphasize their children's intellectual development. Many parents often have a common concern when educating their children. They always hope that their children will not fall behind others. They always encourage their children to practice how to get the same high scores as others, learn the same musical instruments as others, and get as many awards or certificates as others ... without considering their children's personality characteristics and personal hobbies. This kind of "early education" has flourished from everyone's heart, prompting students in China not to play, dare not play, do not play, do not want to learn, do not want to learn, and cannot learn. How can such students be competitive? When choosing a university, the hero in the book doesn't value famous brands, but chooses a university that suits him, because he knows what he likes and wants, and equally importantly, he knows what he is not good at. Now many parents want their children to enter a prestigious school, thinking that as long as they enter a prestigious school, they will succeed. However, if their children are unable to make use of the high-quality resources and good learning environment of prestigious schools, the pressure of entering prestigious schools will increase, it will be difficult to stand out and the possibility of success will be even smaller. Savor this book carefully and give me some inspiration as an educator and parent.