1: "Su Dongpo effect"
"The authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." Social psychologists call the psychological phenomenon that it is difficult to understand "self" correctly "Su Dongpo effect". How to know yourself? 1, people-oriented, know yourself. 2. Inclusive evaluation. 3, master the analysis and judgment methods. Look at the problem in two; Be persuaded not to be manipulated, calm and rational when things happen, and not emotional. 4. Take part in more beneficial activities. Activities can show talent, exercise ability, test and understand "self".
2. "Butterfly Effect"
A small participation and role can develop into an extremely huge and complex influence. This is the psychological "butterfly effect". Therefore, education is no small matter, the expression of a sentence and the handling of a matter have become "hyperlinks" of the soul. Correct and appropriate, such as bathing in the spring breeze, may affect children for a lifetime; Arbitrary mistakes can also delay a child's life. It can be described as "kissing his teacher, believing in his way and learning his manners".
3. "Threshold effect".
The threshold effect is that children's psychological acceptance should be considered when making demands, and it is getting smaller and smaller in order to achieve good educational results. This is the so-called "threshold effect" (the principle of gradual progress). This strategy is called "goal decomposition" Improve learning ability, be good at paving the threshold, implement the principle of "small steps, low steps, diligent help and more care", and the spacing should not be too large or too steep to help each other.