Left-behind children generally refer to children whose parents leave home to work or do business, but live with their grandparents or are fostered in relatives and friends' homes. According to the data reality, the total number of left-behind children in China has reached 20 million, and it is still growing.

Why does the education of left-behind children become a parent's dilemma? We need to reflect.

Because of life, we have to be separated from our children. Children in the transition period of emotional and personality changes are more likely to have problems because they have not been paid attention to by their parents for a long time. There is a popular online saying: "Love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can be flat." Although parents are separated from their children, they can still help each other.

I have a killer weapon for the education of left-behind children, that is, the "spiritual hug" method of family education.

1. Telephone communication: communicate with children at a fixed time in a planned way. Only by keeping in touch with children for a long time can we communicate with children in terms of safety, physical hygiene and learning motivation.

2, letter communication: Many parents think that letter communication is too troublesome, but in fact, letter communication is indeed the most effective.

3. Video communication: Now the functions of mobile phones are more comprehensive. On some important days, such as children's good grades or birthdays, parents can communicate with their children by video to express their congratulations. Of course, if there are conditions, you can also video every day to communicate parent-child feelings.

In this way, children will definitely open their hearts to their parents. Maybe soon, they will take the initiative to "hold their hearts" with their parents.