Love and patience-for children, it is especially necessary to have enough love and attention, so parents should never scold, belittle, be impatient, hit their children, abuse their authority, command and force them, which will lead to children's resistance and destructive attacks. "Parents should give their children more respect, encourage their independence and adventurous spirit, don't interrupt their talk, don't disturb their work, and guide their emotional energy direction. When the child is in a temper, parents should take the initiative to change the environment and let the child make limited choices within a reasonable range with a peaceful, patient and companionship attitude. "

Don't take it-this is the so-called "fire without fire". In the face of children's rebellious behavior, parents should not say "no" directly, because this word will directly stimulate children's rebellious heart: I have to do whatever you don't let me do. And if parents "don't take it", the child's first reaction will become doubt, which is the first step to solve the problem. The child said that he wanted to dye his blond hair. If you say, "No way!" "It can only arouse children's rebellious psychology and feel that parents can't communicate and don't understand themselves. The next day, I naively dyed my hair to show you what you can do. And if the parents' first reaction is: "Yes, I think you are beautiful with blond hair." First of all, it will cause children's doubts: "How can mom say that?" Then open the door to communication.

Clarify the responsibilities of parents-the responsibility of parents is to create a space for children to learn by themselves during their growth.

References:

Zhuojuan Education official website