Many parents worry that their parenting style is not comprehensive enough and need to cultivate their baby's awareness from an early age. Childhood is a critical moment to cultivate their abilities, and parents and children can't ignore every problem in the process of growing up. Now share the effective practices of parents in family education and the areas that need improvement.
Parents' effective practices in family education and places to be improved 1 First, protect children's self-esteem.
Give children free space and don't spy on them while they are studying. Give your child full trust, don't disturb him when he is playing, let him have fun, and he can learn to be practical. Don't drag the child to do his homework when he is having fun, but tell him how much time he spent after he was tired of playing. If there is not enough time left to finish his homework, then he should not sleep. Because everyone should be responsible for their actions.
Second, cultivate interest in learning.
Ask children to deal with the knowledge of the day and work day by day, and don't blindly review, preview and cook. Doing so tends to bite off more than one can chew. As long as they deal with what they have learned every day, they will study without pressure and have interest in learning. In addition, don't give children extra homework. One of the main reasons why children are tired of learning now is the heavy homework.
Third, cultivate children's initiative in learning.
Let children set goals, so that they will have the initiative to learn. This goal should be chosen by the children themselves, not by us, and let the children do what they want. We just help to analyze the ways and means to achieve the goal and the current measures, and finally we will lead to learning. Let children realize that learning is the only way to achieve their goals.
Fourth, cultivate children's perception and thinking ability.
It is necessary to guide children to observe more, teach children to observe methods, see problems comprehensively, and teach children how to analyze problems. Don't give your child an answer directly at any time, but help him think and find a way.
5. Oppose checking homework for children.
It is necessary to cultivate the habit of children to do their homework carefully, and don't let them give us the wrong tasks without paying attention. We can find out the mistakes, but we don't have to point them out, but let him find them himself.
Sixth, let children read more books.
Let him read the books he is interested in, don't force him to read the so-called masterpieces, and learn reading guidance. Some parents don't let their children read books like Decline. I really don't know why.
Seven, have the opportunity to take children out to play.
Tourism is also a good way to learn. Going out can open children's eyes and visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. Not only can they learn a lot of knowledge about literature, history and geography, but they can also relax. Shanghai Science and Technology Museum is very interesting. You can take the children to see it. The Forbidden City in Beijing is the condensation of China's history. It's good for learning history to have a look.
Effective practices of parents in family education and places to be improved II. Cultivate children's good character.
To be a man, you must be good, positive, enthusiastic and kind, and learn to care for and respect others. As the saying goes, "the poor raise children and the rich raise daughters." Now it seems that all children should eat well. The wealth here is not wealth, but the willingness to spend time and energy to cultivate children's temperament, broaden their horizons, increase their experience and increase their knowledge. So that when you grow up, you won't be tempted by all kinds of vanity. Therefore, when other children are busy attending various remedial classes in primary schools, I never let them participate, but let them learn dance and calligraphy, and let them travel every holiday to try to experience new things. As long as children want to do it, let them experience it, even if it is junk food, such as cheap spicy strips and departmental films. If the child wants to eat, he can buy it and try it. After the experience, he won't be curious and can control himself. Parents are children's first teachers, and children's words and deeds often reflect their parents' life. If you want your child to have sunshine, you must set an example first. So I am self-disciplined and regulate my words and deeds. Children try to cancel foreign affairs activities at home to accompany their children and influence them with such "silent education".
Second, cultivate children's self-confidence.
Many of our children lack self-confidence in their studies. They usually get good grades, but they will not perform well in the examination room. In order to protect their face, they always find some reasons. Many students with good grades went to the main school, only five of them, plus her, came here to go to school. Children are reluctant to part, and they are unhappy all semester in senior one. The child doesn't believe in his own ability and the teaching quality of the teachers here. Looking at the emotional child, I also feel a little guilty. It was not until we saw the final exam results that the children's understanding changed completely. The final exam is a unified exam, and the children's grades are year group 19, and the main school is about 70. Especially in mathematics, it can be compared with more than 20 students. Seeing such achievements, the children smiled and felt confident, believing everything here, and I was really relieved! Children's self-confidence comes from the progress of their grades, and they will be more confident if they make progress. Now, children grow up in confidence every day. I really thank all the teachers for being so serious and responsible, constantly urging children to learn and encouraging them in time every day. This kind of care, hard work and dedication is unmatched by any school, which is the source of children's self-confidence.
Third, cultivate children's interest in reading.
A good book can open the mind, mold the personality and shape the soul. If we read it carefully, it will be an inexhaustible spiritual feast. I like watching anti-Japanese war films and documentaries. Careful parents will find that our army should mobilize the people to the greatest extent before each war, so that people have a belief in their hearts, make them excited, and let them do it independently and without scruple. This is the role played by the human spirit. There is also the recently hit Legend of Mi Yue, in which Mi Yue's wisdom, tough personality, politician's strategy and broad mind are all related to reading. When I was a child, I worshipped Qu Yuan as my teacher. After entering Qin Gong, I arranged books and memorials for the emperor. Many of her excellent qualities have been tempered by reading. In reading, I satisfied all my children's wishes. I insisted on reading stories to the children when they were young. When the children are older, I will read books and discuss stories with them. Later, the children read independently. Now, children have formed the habit of reading. It can be said that a person who has only read a book for one day will not change. If he studies for a year in a row, his temperament and even his life experience will have a qualitative leap. Reading is a habit that benefits children for life.
Fourth, communicate with teachers frequently.
Many of our parents are most afraid of meeting the teacher. When they meet the teacher, they always feel that they have nothing to say. In fact, parents should contact their teachers more to learn about their children's recent performance at school and reflect their children's learning situation at home to the teachers, so as to know what shortcomings their children have and educate their children in a targeted manner after returning home. In addition, we should always communicate with our children and learn about their learning status from details. For example, one day at noon, the child said that he had found confidence in studying geography today. I said, what happened? She said she understood what she said today. Oh, we will find that there were many things we didn't understand in the past. This can urge her to give full play to her advantages and make up for her shortcomings in time.