First of all, parents should communicate with their children. When children are emotional, impulsive and shouting, parents can communicate with them patiently to understand their feelings and thoughts. This can make children feel concerned and understanding, and also provide parents with more opportunities to know their children. Through dialogue, parents can gradually guide their children to realize the impact of their actions on the surrounding environment and the appropriate behavior.
Secondly, parents can help their children simulate behaviors in different situations through role-playing. For example, set up a role-playing area at home to simulate different scenes such as shops, schools and libraries, so that children can experience how different roles behave. In this way, children can understand the appropriate behavior more intuitively and strengthen it repeatedly in practice.
At the same time, parents can also formulate clear codes of conduct and reward and punishment systems for their children. For example, parents can list appropriate behaviors in different situations with their children. Parents can discuss these norms with their children and reach a consensus. Parents can praise and reward behaviors that conform to the norms, such as words of approval and small prizes. For those who violate the norms, parents can take appropriate punishment measures, such as temporarily banning the use of electronic devices. In this way, children can gradually understand which behaviors are acceptable and which are unacceptable.
In addition, parents can also guide their children to help them control their emotions through some relaxation and emotional adjustment methods. For example, teach children to take a deep breath, count and do some stretching exercises. These methods can help children to relieve their excitement and make them better control their behavior.
Finally, parents' own behavior is also crucial. Parents should be role models for their children and lead by example. On different occasions, parents should show appropriate behaviors, such as keeping quiet and respecting others in public places. Children will shape their behavior through imitation and learning, and parents' demonstration will play a key role.
In short, parents' patience, understanding and guidance are needed to guide children to control their excitement, distinguish occasions and express them appropriately. Parents can help their children to develop behavior habits that adapt to different occasions through communication, role-playing, formulating codes of conduct, reward and punishment system, and emotional adjustment, so that children can better integrate into society.