1. Words and deeds are more important than words and deeds. Parents' influence on children is everywhere. Parents are role models for their children and have a subtle educational influence. Your own mentality has a direct impact on children. If they are pessimistic, how can they teach their children to be optimistic? Therefore, parents should first make themselves positive and energetic people. Parents should analyze their own style of doing things and their thoughts when they encounter satisfied or dissatisfied events. Whether the satisfactory events are related to their own efforts, and whether there are other reasons for the unsatisfactory events, when children encounter the same things, they can tell their own ways of handling things and thinking, and consciously adjust their ideas in an optimistic style when facing any results. Parents provide support when there are difficulties; In the face of problems, to provide problem-solving skills, the most important thing is to have a positive attitude towards life and the belief that problems will always be solved by example. When a child is in trouble, don't frown, don't blame, don't do it for her, but believe that he can do well at this time or later and provide some help in time.
2. Understand children's personality characteristics, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and consciously cultivate children's enterprising quality.
1. Be reasonable in discipline. We can't let children ignore teaching, but we can't be too strict, suppress childlike innocence and set limits for children, so that children have different choices at different ages and have the opportunity to bear the consequences of their actions.
2. Encourage children to make more friends. Children who are unsociable may not enjoy the warmth of friendship. Teach them to get along with others, let them get in touch with people of different ages, genders, personalities, occupations and social status, and let them learn to get along with different types of people. Parents themselves should live in harmony with others, be warm and sincere to others, not be snobbish and humble, not talk about others behind their backs, and set a good example for their children.
3. Cultivate children's hobbies. Let children have a wide range of hobbies and experience different fun in different hobbies.
4. Face events with children and analyze the relationship between positive behavior and good results. Positive behavior is not only the child's own behavior, but also the help that the child gets from his parents or the support of other external resources. Children should be taught to know themselves correctly, get rid of bad emotions and find the right way to achieve their goals. Discuss the causes of the incident together to help children improve their thinking ability of comprehensive analysis and understanding of things.
5. Create a happy family atmosphere and a harmonious family environment. Provide safe attachment places for children and meet their safety needs. Provide encouragement and support to cultivate children's confidence in pursuing success. Encourage and tolerate diversity in all aspects, allow children to have personal problems, and give them tolerance, acceptance, respect, trust, listening and understanding.
6. Let children have moderate self-confidence. Having self-confidence is closely related to the formation of happy personality. Parents' encouragement helps children overcome their inferiority complex and build self-confidence. Children always want to experience more autonomy when they are two or three years old. On the premise of ensuring safety, parents should provide children with more opportunities and broader space, so that children can verify their behavior ability and experience a sense of control, so as to increase their sense of accomplishment and self-confidence.
7. Teach children how to be grateful, and also teach them to care for each other, and know how to be grateful to those who pay for them. When we are used to expressing gratitude, they will be more willing to help others, be more empathetic and forgive others more easily. At the same time, they will be healthier and happier.
Third, parents keep learning and growing, so that they can be active first. In the eyes of children, they are the people they expect-positive and hardworking. Have positive communication with children and have positive feedback in the face of children's difficulties. With the progress of society and the rapid development of science and technology, people have to learn more and more things. Parents should set an example at ordinary times, pay attention to manners and improve their self-cultivation. As parents, we should always embody the spirit of seeking knowledge and making progress and set an example for our children.