Don't say who is happier than who, because happiness cannot be compared.

Happiness is both material and spiritual.

A long time ago, I heard the story of a rich man and a fisherman: A rich man traveled to the seaside and saw a fisherman lying on the beach enjoying the sunshine leisurely. He scolded him and said, "Why don't you catch more when you are good?" The fisherman asked, "Why did you catch so many fish?" The rich man said, "sell money." The fisherman asked again, "Why do you sell so much money?" The rich man said, "With money, I can walk freely and happily on this beautiful beach like me." The fisherman said, "am I not lying happily on the beach now?"

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The dialogue in the story is really meaningful. Therefore, whether you are happy or not, your own feelings are different. Having money is not necessarily happiness, and having no money is not necessarily unhappiness. Can you compare the rich and the fisherman who is happier?

Happiness is a feeling, and happiness is also spiritual.

Because happiness is not that you have a lot of wealth, wealth is only the glory of appearance, and its significance is self-evident. Grateful fishermen are also happy to lie on the beach and bask in the sun. The sea breeze is a string, the waves are a harp, and they are wandering around …

No one is absolutely happy, even if you are born in a royal or noble family, even if you are covered with silk and satin. But you are not necessarily happier than a fisherman.

Life has realized the descendants of Hui Ze-"No matter how rich you are, you can't eat five bowls of rice with one mouth."

General Wang Chenghan is 88 years old this year. After retiring, his life was calm and regular, and his face often flashed with a strong affinity and infectious smile. The old man adhered to the noble philosophy of life all his life. In his study, the old man wrote: "San Xiao looks beautiful every day, and seven or eight people are not old. The ink of "Meeting for advice and staying in spring, being indifferent to tranquility and winning medicine" shows his unique life perception.

When asked about the daily life of the elderly, the general's wife, Ms. Huang, said: "The general's daily life is very regular. He gets up at 6: 30 in the morning and then goes for a walk in the park for about 1 hour. Write 1 hour after breakfast and then read the newspaper for 40 minutes. Take a lunch break after lunch 1 hour, and then take a walk in the afternoon 1 hour. However, the general can't walk for a long time because of his leg injury. When he is tired, we will push him to a wheelchair. " Ms. Huang then proudly said: "The general is in such good health that it is all my credit. I am a doctor. You see, I gave him a special formula: 1 cup of milk+1 egg+1 calcium tablet+1 vitamin E. The general usually does not smoke or drink, and likes to eat braised pork best. "

The general listened with a smile when his wife spoke. "Fame, wealth and money are things that have nothing to do with me. I often educate my children that there is no need to earn too much money now that the material living conditions are so good. No matter how rich you are, you can't sleep in two beds, watch three TVs with one eye and eat five bowls of rice with one mouth. In this life, people's spiritual world must be rich and substantial. There is no happiness for the materially rich and the spiritually beggars. Only love and affection are eternal in the world, which is the most precious wealth in a person's life! " The general said.

For people, the greatest happiness and happiness is to give their spiritual strength to others.

-Suhomlinski, former Soviet Union

Taste happiness with soul-happiness and spirit

Happiness is the bright sunshine thrown into the window of the soul, a feeling and an optimistic attitude. If you have any questions about this, please listen to me tell you such a story. ...

The doctor told two young patients that they would stay in bed for at least a year. One of them is terrified at the thought that he can't swim, run, get together with friends or even do the job he loves. He sighs all day and complains about the unfair fate. The other felt that he finally had time to think about himself seriously, so he cherished this time and took up a pen to translate a large number of novels as a contribution to society this year. A year has passed, one is still lying in bed sighing, while the other feels that life is so happy and beautiful.

An American suggested, "If there is lemon, I won't complain. I will use it to squeeze lemonade."

Happy people are happy because they know how to cherish everything in their hands. Even if there is only one lemon, he will try his best to squeeze out a cup of sweet happiness water; Even if there is only one inch of land, he will try to find his own happiness gem.

It seems that in our life, we always face happiness, but some people don't feel it ... Farmers complain that the work in the field is too tired, cadres complain that the salary is too small, students complain that there is too much homework, and beggars complain that the people who give alms are too stingy ... So people are full of gloom and sometimes even blush and have thick necks, fighting to the death. So, happiness slips through their fingertips.

In fact, happiness is all around us. When a tired student sees a steaming glass of milk on the table; When farmers harvest golden wheat; When I got used to the hustle and bustle of the city and suddenly came to the silent Woods ... have you ever thought that these are the happiness we are trying to find? Happiness is a kind of feeling, a kind of pay, a kind of dedication, and happiness depends on spirit!

Life should be a happy combination, not a series of tragedies. Life should be a fountain of dedication, not a sponge of taking. Happiness is an optimistic mood, like a fountain, like a candle, like a silkworm. Happiness is a collision of the bottom of my heart, a kind of inner tremor. In the face of a small matter, people should also think about what to do, whether for themselves or for others. Then, deep down, there will be a serious collision. But when the decision is for others, after this trivial thing is done, your heart may have a great tremor. People, when they are white-haired, will cry for their mother's warm eyes. Happiness is also a kind of indifference, a kind of obscurity. A person helps others invisibly, makes others feel better, reduces their psychological pressure, and makes others cheerful, lively and confident. But others don't know which "saint" is helping themselves. This indifference is also a kind of happiness. This kind of happiness is not colorful neon lights, not strong disco, it is just a kind of indifference, a beautiful indifference. Happiness is not a brand-name dress, a luxury gift, a cake given by others when they are poor, or cynicism after success. But the sincere blessing of friends, the enthusiastic help of teachers, and the "help" of Qi Xin, the brother and sister. Happiness needs to be heard, seen, thought and felt!

Happiness is not always there, but it is always brewing in our hearts. If you devote yourself to life, society and the whole world, happiness will be with you. Let's create happiness with our own hands and feel happiness with our own body and mind. When happiness comes, face it with the right attitude!

Activity suggestion: Pick happiness.

Time is your divided life, so make a "timetable" and try to do what belongs to you; Do a good job today, there will be surprises every day; Cherish every minute of your life and collect your happiness in time.

Happiness is a kind of belief, noble and plain.

Philosophers tell us that happiness is nothing more than the satisfaction of one's own existence and lifestyle, and the complete recognition of one's own state, no matter what it looks like and how humble it makes others feel.

Shao Daosheng, a sociologist in China, believes that true happiness lies in pursuing beautiful goals. French philosopher Roman. Roland said: "once selfish happiness becomes the only goal of life, life becomes aimless." What is a good goal? It should not be personal fame and fortune, banquets and luxuries, but the promotion of work, the advancement of career, the progress of society and the development of mankind.

The great Russian writer Nikolai Nikolai Gogol put it well: "If one day I can contribute to our public interests, I will consider myself the happiest person in the world."

"Happiness means having a grateful heart, a healthy body, a satisfactory job, a lover who deeply loves you, and a group of trustworthy friends."

△ Happiness is a state, simple and rich.

△ Happiness is a feeling, warm and sweet.

Lin Qingxuan, a freelance writer in Taiwan Province Province, wrote in the article Happiness: When we were young, we lived in the southern countryside. Because there are many brothers and sisters, my mother is very busy. As soon as we approached her, her most natural reaction was to push us away with a palm: "Go! Adults are busy, don't stumble here! " Therefore, I am very eager to hold her hand one day. One day, my mother was going to pick wild vegetables in the field, and I followed. Suddenly, she took my hand and walked along the path in the field. It was dusk and the setting sun was golden, which lengthened her figure and almost covered the whole path. At that time, I felt the happiness I had never felt before. Life is so beautiful! More than 30 years have passed, and every time I think of that scene, the feeling of happiness still surges, ah! It turns out that the feeling of happiness is accumulated by many small feelings

△ Happiness is a kind of mood, relaxed and comfortable.

I once read such a story:

A king always felt unhappy, so he sent people everywhere to find a happy person and then brought back his shirt. ......

The team looking for happy people waded through mountains and rivers, and when they met people, they asked: Are you happy? The answer is always: unhappy, I have no money; Unhappy, I have no relatives; Without happiness, I can't get love ... although there are various contents, it is certain that almost no one feels happy, and there are always more or less disappointments in life.

The search for happiness has crossed Qian Shan. Just when they no longer had any hope, melodious songs came from the hills still illuminated by the sun. The song is full of happiness, floating on the hills where wild flowers are swaying.

People looking for happiness found a "happy man" with the song, only to see him lying on the hillside, bathed in warm golden sunshine, the wind blowing his hair, squinting without looking, and continuing his singing.

Do you feel happy? Yes, I feel very happy.

All your wishes can come true. Do you never worry about tomorrow?

I don't know. You see, the sun is extremely warm, the wind is extremely warm, my stomach is not hungry, my mouth is not thirsty, the sky is so blue and the ground is so wide. I am lying here, and no one bothers me except you. What am I unhappy about?

You are really a happy person.

Please give your shirt to our king and he will reward you.

What is a shirt? I've never seen it.

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△ Happiness is a kind of wisdom, rational and realistic.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: "When we are pursuing and waiting for happiness, life sneaks into the past unconsciously."

In Reminding Happiness, the writer Bi Shumin vividly described the process of happiness "smuggling": "People often just pick up the golden mane on the ground and say that I have seen it before. People like to recall the specimens of happiness, but ignore the moment when happiness is covered with dew and emits fragrance. At that time, we were often in a hurry, looking back and thinking about what we were busy with. "

Happiness sometimes comes from comparison: seeing a friend in a wheelchair and thinking that I can walk freely, happiness holds my hand; Seeing my terminally ill friend unhappy, I thought that I was not infected by the disease, and happiness surrounded me; Seeing that many people of the same age are "old" and thinking that they are still alive and kicking, the feeling of happiness will rise from Ran Ran. Happiness may be hidden in each of us?

△ Happiness is a realm, open-minded and lofty.

Bi Shumin's perception of happiness is strong. Hit the floor: "when we have nothing, we can also say: I am very happy." Because we still have healthy bodies. When we no longer enjoy health, the bravest people can still smile and say: I am very happy. Because I still have a healthy heart. Even when we are connected to each other, the best molecules of mankind can still say loudly to the universe: I am very happy. Because I have lived. "

According to a sociologist in China, an American scientific research institution with happiness as its research purpose has come to the conclusion that happiness has nothing to do with age, gender and family background, but comes from a relaxed mood and a healthy attitude towards life. They summed up 10 secrets to make themselves happy: don't complain about life; Don't covet comfort; Feel friendship; Work hard; Reduce the negative impact; The ideal of life; Give yourself motivation; A regular life; Cherish time; Be grateful.