Accept the reality! Change has become the norm in the whole life stage of modern people. We are always surrounded by all kinds of possibilities, and most of these possibilities are not what we think is best for us.

Even if one day we regret it, it is because we should do something to change it. Only those who keep pace with the times can take full responsibility for their own lives.

This is an era of "hard choices"; It is also an era full of opportunities, and you can even create your own opportunities. There will never be only one possibility in our life. Life is willing to give up, give up one and get one. People who truly understand life are people who will turn those wrong choices into life experiences. Regret is not terrible, what is terrible is the mentality of persisting in regret but unwilling to change. Not afraid of choice, not afraid of regret.

Career choice is like love:

Every student who is about to enter the university career always wants to find a major that is most suitable, perfect and matches himself, just as everyone wants to find an object that 100% suits him. But such ideas are often too beautiful.

Every student with a report card is looking forward to: choosing the most suitable university, finding the perfect major, studying enthusiastically, having a bright future, finding employment immediately after graduation, rising in the workplace, and finally retiring without regrets and enjoying the sunshine on the island beach.

And life is so long, there will be many unexpected changes in the middle. If we are afraid of change, we will expect ourselves to make decisions and put them in place; If we hate trouble, we will ask ourselves to make the right choice at the first time. Too much pursuit of perfection will make us never make a decision. Instead of accepting that the real world is changing or not adapting to the times, the result is either a lifetime of depression in the old field or being submerged by the torrent of the times.

The reason why people keep moving forward in this complicated and changeable era is that we have adapted to those "imperfect" choices and made corresponding changes. The Internet has changed the modern world. This is an era that is always updated and we have no time to download it. Today, it is considered as a hot profession and industry, and maybe it will die tomorrow. And we have never stopped changing ourselves, from interest and personality to outlook on life and values. Today you are different from yesterday.