When a child falls to the ground crying for no reason, parents can pretend not to see him and ignore him. When the child has cried enough and made enough noise, he will get up by himself. Some children ignore adults and may make some dangerous moves, such as hitting their heads. Parents can take him to a safe place and let him continue to toss. After the child's dissatisfaction is vented, there will be no more quarrels. When the child completely calms down, the parents will persuade the child and convince him. This is the correct way of family education and true love. Only in this way can you gain the trust and respect of your children. Children aged 0-3 like to grow up carefree with breast milk in their mouths under the careful protection of their mothers. After the child is over 3 years old, he gradually develops self-reliance and begins to receive real early childhood education. However, some children are slow to accept this change, have strong dependence on their mothers and want to enjoy the love from their mothers. If the mother starts to prohibit, force, interfere and even punish the child's behavior at this time, the child will be confused, uneasy and even dissatisfied with this change. In fact, the child's coquetry to his mother is to eliminate his inner anxiety and dissatisfaction, and he is asking his mother for love. On the contrary, some children who enjoy excessive maternal love are not easy to accept this form of discipline in spirit, but spoil their mothers. Faced with this situation, parents often have two diametrically opposite methods of discipline: one is too urgent and the other is too slow. These two kinds of psychology are unfavorable to children's growth. Some mothers let their children become independent and self-reliant too quickly, and interfere, remind and reprimand their children too much. As a result, children never leave their mothers in order to regain their love. On the contrary, some mothers treat their children as babies, no matter how old they are. No matter what you do, you don't pay attention to cultivating children's independence and making them dependent. In the long run, such children will be unable to do anything well, be slow and clumsy, and thus lose their ability to stand on their own feet. If parents give maximum satisfaction to any requirements put forward by their children, such children always follow the adults, because they can do whatever they want by relying on them. For example, once a child is sick, the mother will naturally worry and serve carefully. Even if the child is in good health, he still asks for maternal love beyond the limit when he is sick, which is also a reason why the child is spoiled. Parents should see that although children have grown up, they are still children. Sometimes they need to hug, kiss, play together, and even occasionally allow their children to be a little cute. Children who grow up in a carefree atmosphere will often become enterprising, independent, confident and cheerful children when they grow up. If parents don't allow their children to be spoiled at all, children will feel that they have lost their maternal love. If the child is reprimanded at this time, he will be more hungry for maternal love, form anxiety and dissatisfaction, and even eventually have adverse consequences. Therefore, the mother should gently accept the child's normal coquetry, and gradually let the child do something within her power, so that the child gradually realizes that she has grown up.