A psychologist once said: Normal physical and mental growth needs a certain sense of ritual. In this small ceremony, it is actually a strong self-suggestion, which makes your attention more focused, more serious and more focused. The sense of ceremony implies that you must take this matter seriously. Therefore, in family education, the sense of ritual is particularly important for children's growth.
First, a sense of ceremony can inject a sense of security into children.
The company of parents will make children feel at ease. Therefore, the ceremony that mom and dad give their children can be a kiss after waking up every day to give them warmth; Tell a short story before going to bed, so that children can sleep peacefully; It is a beautiful night before going to bed, which makes children feel safe. Any small ceremony can make children feel the company of their parents and get along with them at a distance, thus creating a sense of security.
Second, the sense of ceremony means that you are not absent from every activity.
Attend important activities in children's growth, such as every parent-child meeting, parent-child sports meeting, school performance, etc. The children are looking forward to the arrival of their parents. The appearance of parents will make children full of self-confidence and identity, and these seemingly ordinary days will also become beautiful memories for us and our children.
Third, the expression of love between parents makes children know more about love.
The best family education is that dad loves mom. If couples can express their love more, they can make their children feel practical. When a lover has a birthday, the children can participate in planning and celebrating together, prepare a simple small gift, and cook a unique dinner every wedding anniversary to let the children know that dad loves mom and mom loves dad. They all love me, and I love them.
Fourth, reading with a sense of ceremony can make children more eager to learn.
Wang Han, the host of Hunan Satellite TV, once said: "Reading is a ritual thing. Every day I will pick out the three books I want to read most, then wash my hands, light a sandalwood and make a good cup of tea. This is an indispensable preparation. " Therefore, parents should behave well, communicate with their children in their studies after work, spend more time with their children at home and set an example. The seemingly insignificant little ceremony is the subtle cultivation of parents.
What a beautiful word to describe the sense of ceremony. It gives children a little more sense of ceremony and makes them have more happy experiences in those years when they are growing up. Let every memory be filled with sweet smile and warm touch. We should make good use of every day, so that every day will be full and beautiful. Wisdom lighthouse will accompany parents and children to grow up together and work together!