Current location - Education and Training Encyclopedia - Educational Knowledge - In the era of multiple births, how to better take care of each child's feelings?
In the era of multiple births, how to better take care of each child's feelings?
With the opening of the second child policy, many parents may start to consider whether to have another child. Many parents also think that both children are better, so they will also consider having another child. But in this era of multiple births, it may bring some psychological burden to children more or less. Because for children, if they are used to a child's life, they will also feel that the only child is very happy. But also in the material and education can be well treated, and the growth environment is also very happy.

But if another child gives them a certain degree of competition in their lives, they will feel particularly stressed. Even more exclusive to have another brother or sister, because for them, if they have another brother or sister, they may be given some resources to share equally. And situations like this also make these children feel a little anxious. After all, in this competitive era, they may feel some pressure from all sides. Therefore, in this era of multiple births, if parents want to have another child, if they have two children, they must balance their love for each child.

Otherwise, children's feelings may be misunderstood or treated differently to some extent, which will also make them feel very sad, thus affecting the feelings between some parents and children. For example, children nowadays have very strong personalities. If parents give them another brother or sister without their consent or consultation, it may also lead to depression of children. Therefore, in this case, we should communicate well with our children, tell them why we want to give them another brother or sister, what benefits it will bring them, and let them accept it willingly, so as to make the whole family environment more harmonious.

In addition, after giving birth to the second child, parents should also actively communicate their feelings with the first child. In the process of children's growth, the feelings between brothers and sisters will become deeper, so that they can understand that it is a good thing to have brothers and sisters. For these children, they will gradually accept that they have a younger brother or sister when they grow up. Don't skimp on the resources of 1 children, and try to care for every child based on equality in normal education, so that children can feel psychological balance.