Psychological characteristics:
Self-awareness and self-judgment have been improved.
I like to say "no" to everything he says.
You tell him to go east and west.
Once you object, immediately resist and speak out.
The correct way:
1. Don't respond positively to children's unreasonable troubles.
2. Encourage children to express their emotions correctly.
3. Guide children to learn to do specific things
Cultivate compassion
5. Encourage children's autonomy
6. Gently and firmly let children know that "rules" must be observed.
7. Don't shout at children, try to be gentle.
Then point out what the child's problem is.
The second rebellious period: 7-9 years old
Psychological characteristics:
I like to sing against my parents.
Have a clear sense of self, like to ask for equal dialogue, and have a bad temper.
Impulse, love talk back to parents.
Increased curiosity and activity
Constantly prove that you have grown up and don't need others to restrain you.
The correct way:
1. Don't restrict children's freedom.
2. Cultivate children's interest in learning
3. From "opposition" to guiding children with language skills
4. Democracy, not authority
5. Put down your posture. Learn to be friends with children and respect them.
6. Affirm the child's efforts and progress and praise him more.
7. Communicate more and be more appeased when encountering things.
The third rebellious period: 12- 15 years old.
Psychological characteristics:
Have a bad temper and abnormal behavior
I like "disobeying my parents"
Swearing is always dirty.
Like to pursue independence
It is prone to anxiety, rebellion, frustration and other emotions.
Sensitive, suspicious, self-respecting
The correct way:
1. Less criticism, more understanding and more patience.
2. Try to stand in the same camp with your child and keep the parent-child communication smooth.
3. Leave a certain space for children and don't interfere too much.
Live with many children and treat him as an independent person.
4. Respect children's behavior, don't blame, don't cross the line.
5. Give more trust, warmth and praise.
The child entered a rebellious period,
15 What parents should do.
1. Do a good job in parent-child relationship, communicate on an equal footing, and the topic should not be limited to study and homework.
Don't do everything instead. If there are contradictions between children and classmates, it is best to encourage them.
They solve it themselves.
3. Let children participate in family affairs.
Encourage children to read and exercise instead of being confined to a small room.
Small in the wild and small in the heart.
If you are not particularly busy, it is also an education to spend leisure time with your children and eat together.
6. At all times, we should respect children's independent personality and have an equal dialogue with them.
7. Don't doubt and quarrel in front of children. Parents' way of getting along is the best textbook.
8. Never compare your child's shortcomings with others' strengths.
Rewards and encouragement can make them confident.
9. Let the children talk as much as possible. You should be a listener and don't make arbitrary decisions for your children.
10. Save the phone numbers of multiple teachers, so as to know the school situation of children from multiple angles.
1 1. Pay attention to children's friends and how often they use mobile phones and computers.
12. Don't complain about life, work and people in front of children.
13 Don't play mobile phone or computer for a long time in front of children.
14. Have a ceremonial talk with the children once a week and sum up the plan in everything.
Can't mess.
15. you can pay attention to your child's grades, but you can't just look at the scores, you should look at the changes and improvements.