I remember that there was a lesson about sexual knowledge in my junior high school biology textbook more than ten years ago, but the teacher never mentioned it. The teacher talked about this in class and asked the students to read on their own. This has always depressed me. Since it is written in the textbook, doesn't it mean that this is what we should learn and master? Why didn't the teacher even mention it? Until my junior year, our biology teacher was replaced by a female teacher of about forty years old. She probably gave us a brief talk in a responsible attitude towards students. And at that time she also reminded us that girls must protect themselves. I think this teacher is particularly good. Although she looks serious, in fact she is very careful. She knew that boys and girls of this age were ignorant and needed a reliable adult to popularize sexual knowledge for them, so she told us.
First, sex education is really an invisible taboo in family education in China.
The relationship between parents and children in China is very appropriate and too measured. Elders should behave like elders. It is disrespectful to talk about sex with the younger generation and will be spurned. It is this concept that has been passed down from generation to generation. Influenced by it since childhood, we feel that it is a very shameful thing to talk about sex education in public. If a person dares to say such a thing in public, then the whole family will be ashamed of him.
Second, in school education, teachers seem embarrassed to mention this matter to students, and they just skip it. Few teachers are so careful as that woman teacher.
Teachers in schools have received the same education as ordinary people since childhood. Although they are teaching and educating people, they are embarrassed to say it because of the ideological influence in their bones. Besides, there is another problem. Most male teachers are embarrassed to talk about sex education in front of female students. On the contrary, those female teachers often talk about sex education in detail for the growth of these female students. The way of male teachers is simple and rude, that is, they continue to watch their own classes. Female teachers often tell female students to pay attention to their own safety and protect themselves.
Sex education is really important, and now sexual crimes against minors are becoming more and more common. Who will protect the safety of children? It is very important to educate children about sex from an early age and let them consciously protect themselves, which can fundamentally avoid being hurt and reduce the occurrence of such cases.