Children's nature should be naive, lively and lovely, childlike and innocent, and they should be alive and kicking, talking and laughing. However, some children, young but taciturn, show melancholy, deep and sophisticated appearance, and keep a straight face all day, that is, they don't like talking, laughing, socializing and playing. In the classes I have contacted in recent years, there are two or three such children in each class. These introverted children always give people a feeling of being quiet, delicate, sensitive, preoccupied, unable to express themselves or unwilling to communicate. So, how to make these introverted children lively and promote their physical and mental development like other children? People often say that "personality determines fate", and a bright future begins with superior personality. As a kindergarten teacher, finding the personality weakness of an introverted child has the greatest responsibility to help and change him, so that he can gradually form a good personality that affects his life from the enlightenment stage of his life. Based on my own teaching experience, I talk about how to educate introverted children from several aspects for discussion and exchange.
First of all, we should help them build self-confidence and give them more care.
Introverts are often caused by lack of self-confidence. If teachers leave them alone, they will think they are honest and don't bother. Then, it will leave indelible scars on their young minds, and it will also affect their later lives, which will easily lead to their withdrawn personality. Therefore, we should give more encouragement and support to such children, stimulate their internal motivation and establish their self-confidence. Don't blame them even if they don't do well. Instead, they should say, "You will do better next time." Because children's self-awareness has not yet developed and they lack the ability of self-judgment, they often know themselves through the evaluation of others, especially the evaluation of teachers is very important. Teachers should pay more attention to these children. For introverted children, we should care more about and sympathize with him every day, and we should take the initiative to say hello to him every morning when we come to kindergarten. Talk to him more in daily life. Although you don't respond, you should keep communicating with him. When discovering advantages, praise them in time and reward them with small prizes, so that they can feel their inner joy. With self-confidence, they will naturally speak.
Secondly, we should urge them to take part in various activities.
Introverts tend to be unsociable, and activities organized by teachers are free, so they never ask to participate. Therefore, when organizing activities, we should pay special attention to these children, let them play the leading role in the activities, encourage them to express themselves and guide them to participate boldly. It doesn't matter if they don't do well, let them experience success and happiness in the activities and realize the value of their existence. This is the most effective way to help introverted children overcome their timidity. In order to make them talk more, we can often ask introverted children to answer more questions in activities, encourage them to speak in a voice that everyone can hear, educate other children to wait patiently, and praise his progress in different ways.
It is very important to know your own evaluation, especially the teacher's evaluation of them. Teachers should pay more attention to these children. For introverted children, we should care more about and sympathize with him every day, and we should take the initiative to say hello to him every morning when we come to kindergarten. Talk to him more in daily life. Although you don't respond, you should keep communicating with him. Praise them in time when they find advantages, reward them with small prizes, and let them feel inner joy. Since they have confidence, they will naturally start talking.
Third, we should educate other children to take the initiative to contact and play with them more.
Introverted children like to be alone, unsociable, easily discriminated by other children, often bullied by other children in partnership, and even often scolded and beaten. Therefore, teachers should always educate other children not to discriminate against them, not to bully them in partnership, to approach them actively, and to encourage lively children to play with them. When they are found to be bullied by other children, the teacher should come out in time to stop them. When children are together, their nature is most easily revealed. If a group of children play with them all day, they will be very lively as long as their intelligence is normal. Sometimes communication between children is much better than that between adults. Therefore, the most important thing is to let children communicate with their peers, provide children with various opportunities and get exercise from them.
Fourth, pay attention to talking to them.
Be careful what you say to introverted children, don't criticize them indiscriminately, and don't embellish them with irony, because introverted children, like adults, will especially "hold grudges". Usually he doesn't like to talk, but he remembers what others say very clearly for a long time. Unlike a "careless" child, it doesn't matter if you criticize a few words, he will soon forget. Therefore, when communicating with them, we should pay attention to the way of speaking and their sensitive hearts.
Fifth, we must persevere.
Gender training is a long-term process, which cannot be accomplished overnight, just like a famous saying: sowing behavior, harvesting habits; Sowing habits, harvesting character. Character is formed bit by bit in life practice, and the shaping of good character should also start from specific behaviors and basic habits. What is needed at this time is our patience. Without enough patience, it won't work. Only with patient guidance and encouragement will these children listen to you, trust you and be willing to talk to you. This is your victory. As kindergarten teachers, we should believe that introverted children are also lovely children. Help them form a good personality as soon as possible and let them grow up healthily and happily.