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The harm of beating and scolding education
I was never beaten when I was a child. When I was young, my parents still loved me very much. They just persuaded and educated me. I feel that beating and scolding education is not desirable.

There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents don't talk to him patiently by persuasion and education, but by violence, which will cause psychological shadow to the child. After a long time, he will have rebellious psychology in his heart.

♀? Willing to please others

Children who grow up under the threat of their parents are easy to look at others' faces and please others. They will follow others, be careful what they say, and they will put a low profile.

Children will become very timid.

Living with parents for a long time will scare their children into cowardice, because in the face of fierce parents, they dare not show their heart, but only hide behind their backs to secretly observe their parents' faces and please their parents.

Children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threat education at home, when their children are still young, they don't know that what their parents say is false, and they are all scaring them. But when children are older and start to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are deceiving themselves, so they will distrust their parents more and more, and they will not tell their parents when they really encounter difficulties and dangers.