Accept children
Puppy love in adolescence is a natural thing, and parents should not regard it as a scourge. Parents should treat their children with an accepting attitude.
Share experience
Parents can tell their children the story of their adolescent love, let them know that puppy love is a normal phenomenon, and at the same time establish empathy with their parents, lead their children and each other to make progress and grow together in their studies, and guide their children to the right direction.
connect
Children are growing up and have feelings for the opposite sex, but they have no experience. At this time, parents can properly expose themselves, talk about their love experiences and experiences, give their children some guidance, let them understand that liking and falling in love are two different things, and teach them to correctly handle and treat their feelings and protect themselves without hurting each other.
Take a long-term view
Let children know that learning is the most important thing now, so that they can become excellent and give each other a better life. At the same time, tell children that they will have more choices when they grow up.
Keep a proper distance.
Parents can let the most authoritative person in the family enlighten their children and let them jump out of excessive emotional dependence. Perhaps normal communication between children will promote each other's progress, but we should teach children to avoid being alone with each other, encourage them to participate in more group activities, divert their attention, and dilute or concentrate their love relationship.