In the process of education, no matter what role, children should not be educated by corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form. Therefore, according to the definition of corporal punishment, it is not only physical punishment, but also psychological punishment. This way of "letting you see enough at once" has actually caused a great psychological blow to children. If many things are done in this way, it is hard to imagine what kind of personality children will form when they grow up.

There are actually many positive educational methods for children's education:

First of all, parents should not set a negative example for their children.

Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and children in childhood have a strong imitation ability, which is easily influenced by family environment and parents' education methods. In order to reduce children's attacks on others, parents must change the way of education and resolutely put an end to corporal punishment of children.

Second, communicate with children more.

While parents are busy with their work, they must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to fully grasp their performance at school and at home. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can understand how to guide the child instead of beating and scolding the child to solve the problem. No matter how young children are, parents should treat them equally. Some rude parents are always used to beating and cursing their children, which can easily make them feel disgusted with their parents. In this way, children will not be understood by their parents, and the gap between them will become deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more and let them know that their parents understand him. In this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, thus actively correcting their mistakes.

Third, be more reasonable with your children.

When children are disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate with their children in daily life, but also pay attention to their own educational methods. Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible children without beating and cursing. Parents should be more reasonable with their children in real life, let them have empathy, and let them learn to put themselves in their own shoes and realize their own shortcomings. Facts have proved that children are more likely to accept their parents' opinions spontaneously and the educational effect is more ideal.