Lao Cui, my colleague Mrding's cousin, has been worrying about family chores recently and often comes to our unit to complain to Mrding. I came again the other day. I happened to be in Mrding's office at that time, so I persuaded the eldest brother together.

What's going on here? Lao Cui did business when he was young. Business is not big, but he is diligent. I am passionate about two things in my life, one is having a son, and the other is buying a real estate. Now, they are over 70 years old and all five sons are married. In addition to buying it for his son in earlier years, the value of six properties under Lao Cui's own name is also skyrocketing.

Supposedly, judging from our small county, Lao Cui is a successful person. With a son at home, real estate is strong. I don't know how many times more comfortable than those gwy brothers who have superficial scenery and hold their heads high!

However, the two treasures in Lao Cui's life cannot coexist peacefully.

In recent years, although the old Cui Chunqiu has flourished, his ability to make money has gradually disappeared. Now, Lao Cui's main task every day is to look after his grandchildren with his wife who overdrawn in earlier years and seek medical advice for two days.

After the Spring Festival this year, the business of Lao Cui's sons was depressed because of the epidemic. I don't know who picked the head. I came to see Lao Cui and asked him that his six houses would be left to his son in the future anyway. It is still very troublesome for him to transfer after a hundred years. Better split it now! Business is bad, everyone is short of money!

Lao Cui was not very happy after listening to his sons, but it makes sense to think about it. So the dry hand shivered: points!

Then the question comes: five sons, six houses, how to divide them? The sons were also silent collectively.

Finally, the newly married little son broke out in silence. He proposed that he was the youngest and had the shortest time to be taken care of by his parents. My brothers have been taken care of for decades. He should be divided into two parts. Daughter-in-law immediately replied: Let our elder brother and sister-in-law choose first, and we want the remaining two sets.

Lao Cui and Lao Cui's wife looked at each other and thought that what the younger son said seemed reasonable, besides, his parents spoiled him. Then, how about two sets for the fifth family?

The old couple's idea is not yet mature, and the eldest daughter-in-law is already on fire: when we got married, the old man and the old lady only gave me a bride price of 800 yuan and bought a house of 60 yuan. What about you? Who doesn't get more bride price than me? For a bachelor family, your wedding gift is 188800, and the house the old man bought for you is 150. Do you want two suites? Your face is really big!

Lao Cui listened to her eldest daughter-in-law's words, stupidly: Yes! Old people are right, too. But when they got married, the salary was low, the price was low, and the bride price was so high. This 800 yuan is still high. Except for the house, the machinery factory where the boss works has built a batch of 60 square meters, and no one wants to buy a big one!

So, daughters-in-law, we will appear after you finish singing. Third daughter-in-law, unwilling to lag behind, catches up: Which one of you has my loss? Old people used to find relationships for you and spend a lot of money to arrange jobs. Only my third son and I set up our own stalls to save money.

Lao Cui began his psychological activities again: the third child went to primary school for two years and never went to school again, and the third daughter-in-law didn't know a word. At least other sons graduated from junior high school and can spend money to buy jobs in enterprises. The third family and the second family have no culture, so it is really difficult to do formal work. Who can blame this?

Second daughter-in-law: Are you blind or blind? How many years have we been laid off? What do you mean by work? Who gave you the capital to set up a stall? Didn't the old man give it to you

Fourth daughter-in-law: I gave birth to two grandchildren for your old Cui family. If I don't divide my two houses, I'll change my son's name to mine at once.

The last scene is a scuffle between five daughters-in-law. They tore each other's hair and rudely questioned each other's parents. Still in his busy schedule, he turned from time to time, scolding the coward behind him who didn't come forward to help fight, and asking their common in-laws in more intense words.

Lao Cui's wife fainted on the spot.

The arrival of the ambulance dispersed the nearby onlookers. It was on this occasion that the old Cui family became famous in World War I.

After complaining in Mrding's office, Lao Cui's sad face still lingers, and the final summary is quite classic: everything is not good for his daughter-in-law.

This is a typical concept that China people care about their children's parents: never complain about their children's poor performance, and always find a home for their shortcomings.

Mrding was not polite to him: My cousin! I don't agree with you. Daughter-in-law is not good, in the final analysis, our son is not top!

(2) Spring Breeze controls his wife's technique by changing rainfall.

I think my colleague Mrding's sentence "My son is not top-notch" is very Japanese. Successfully killed all the bear parents who couldn't see the shortcomings of their children.

Of course I sympathize with Lao Cui and his wife, but in the final analysis, I didn't educate my son well.

The sons, on the other hand, didn't take care of their daughter-in-law.

It is a well-known truth that "the son doesn't teach, the father blames" I think "the wife doesn't teach, the husband makes mistakes" is also very reasonable!

I have a good friend for many years and a good best friend. His name is fish.

When we were at school, the mermaid was a grumpy little sister, quarreling with her parents at home and fighting with her classmates at school. Students call them warmongers. I never thought that she could live in peace with her in-laws after marriage, and she lost a good reputation for being virtuous and filial.

How virtuous and filial are people and fish? Give examples. Usually in the fish's own small home, it is the husband who cooks and does housework. But when she returned to her hometown during the holiday, she almost did all the housework at her in-laws' home and let her husband go out to get together with classmates and friends in her hometown. If there are guests at home, she will cook a table of more than a dozen dishes without complaint. After giving birth to the second child, her in-laws came to help her with the children. The economy is not loose. In order to make her in-laws live comfortably, she pooled her money to buy a small house for her in-laws. Give her enough living expenses every month, and everything she wants to eat and wear is in front. This daughter-in-law is more careful than her daughter.

Later, I spent more time with my husband and found that this seemingly taciturn man turned out to be a master of controlling his wife. For example, when a fish loses his temper, he never loses his temper with his wife on the spot. He always appeases first, then makes sense. For example, he is very kind to the mermaid's family, so it is not a problem to contribute money. When something happens, he must give priority to the mermaid's opinion. For example, a man and a fish are nagging, and he is eager to listen. He listened patiently every time, and his smiling listening expression made others think that a person and a fish were telling stories. For another example, when several of our good friends get together, he always takes the initiative to help look after the children. He can look after several children by himself, so that we can get together happily.

Some people may think, what's the secret? This is paying!

The art of controlling your wife is to love and give! Everyone knows the truth, and how many people can do it?

(3) What is behind goodness?

It is skillful to control your wife. To put it bluntly, it is love and giving.

Of course, we should also influence her with the correct three views, guide her with a wise lifestyle and tolerate her with a broad mind.

To put it more bluntly, husband and wife should influence each other and grow together. With your lover around, you can criticize your shortcomings, point out your mistakes and tolerate your mistakes. Of course, we can also see that every tiny shining point of you gives you praise, learns from you and is proud of you.

In this era, who doesn't want to be a proud little princess? Therefore, when a wife makes a mistake, loses control or is irrational, what she needs is the influence of her husband's spring breeze, so that she can know it with emotion and move it with reason.

In the war of Lao Cui's family, behind the leading daughters-in-law, there are a group of men who are in a fog and don't understand the world.

Just like my good friend Fish, there are other women who do a good job as wives. People have seen their goodness, please look back.

Behind them, there is a man who can go to the moon for nine days and catch turtles in five oceans, wearing colorful holy clothes and stepping on colorful auspicious clouds, with unparalleled martial arts and all kinds of tenderness in his heart-

Husband.

Both the characters and the story are fictional, and if they are similar, they are predestined friends.