Conceptually undesirable, it is easy to mislead the understanding of the concept of education. Real education is teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Because of different viewpoints, children's happiness is different.
Learning and living are bittersweet. There is joy in bitterness, and there is bitterness in joy, and bitterness and joy coexist. When children make progress through their own efforts, they will have a sense of accomplishment, which is their happiness. The so-called happiness comes at a price, that is, how to control your own shortcomings and give play to your own advantages. This kind of self-control is to give full play to one's personal advantages freely, be strict with oneself and cultivate one's self-cultivation.
The so-called happy learning means that children give full play to their personal advantages, gain a sense of accomplishment, and stimulate their enthusiasm and potential. The so-called strict requirements are not that parents demand children, but that parents cultivate their children's ability to be strict with themselves. Children are happy if they have the consciousness of being strict with themselves. On the contrary, it is a kind of sadness.
Don't be disturbed by unrealistic educational concepts. Since ancient times, the core value of education in China is to teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and so is education in western countries. Therefore, when every parent has made clear the concept and significance of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, the educational confusion for their children will be solved.
"Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, guiding and inspiring" is the golden key for parents to educate their children? . Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is to get rid of the bad habit of showing off with the wind, and guiding and inspiring is an extension of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude!