Although we choose to go back to our hometown for development, I suggest you buy a house in Shanghai and stay in Shanghai for development. Your family conditions are much better than mine. My family earns less than 300,000 yuan a year in Shanghai and has two children. You have a house in your hometown and your parents can help you. Besides, it's no problem to settle down in a few years with high education and high income. This condition is better than many people, and you will not be forced to stay, so you will not be as poor as we are.
Colleagues born after 1990 have similar educational background, income and family conditions to you. Now it's either buying a house or buying a house. I think they are all doing well. The quality of life is much higher than ours. Although they all have mortgages, the pressure is not great, and they are all young and have unlimited potential. The house I live in now is small. I can change it to a bigger one in a few years. I think if I have this condition, I will be reluctant to leave, not only for the children, but also for eating, drinking and having fun here. In education, I don't know. You can watch a video of "selling Shanghai real estate and returning to your hometown". The following comments are very reasonable. They are all from their own point of view and can be used for reference. Anyway, the final decision was made by our own family, and our whole family thought it was better to go back, so we went back.
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Hold People's Republic of China (PRC) (China) ID card.
It shows how many families and parents are concerned about the Shanghai hukou policy.
This shows how many teenagers are worried about the Shanghai hukou policy.
Selfish, Shanghai hukou is guaranteed for life.
Why don't rural hukou struggle?
Because rural hukou does not have this treatment.
Regardless of whether the hukou can be solved, there is a house in my hometown and Shanghai has the conditions to buy a house. Although the down payment is a bit tight, it is not completely incompetent. From the perspective of family assets allocation and long-term value preservation, I suggest that you take the time to buy a house in Shanghai first, and it doesn't matter if it is small. Don't waste this priceless room ticket in Shanghai; Whether you and your husband's ability can be further improved in the future, Shanghai's assets are all value-added. Even if you don't want to stay in Shanghai, you can have a house to live in when you go back to your hometown. You can attack and retreat when you enter, and there is no pressure at all.
Shanghai's education model leads the country. For the future development of children, you should choose to study here, and it is not very convenient to go abroad. Children are the hope of parents, and they can't be with them. You can accompany them while working. As long as you adapt to the rhythm and feel at home everywhere, it is also happy to grow up with your children. Shanghai's first-tier cities have a lot of room for development, and several top universities are in this city. Wouldn't it be better for children to be exposed to these things from an early age and set an example? It's nothing that parents sacrifice for their children. When children enter the university, they can choose to go back to their hometown, and people go higher. Parents can also try to set an example for their children. If you stay in your hometown, you may go further and feel that you have taken a detour. Education still needs to go to a big city for education. The teachers and teaching methods here are leading, so it doesn't matter if you feel wronged. When you think about your child's future path, you will feel that today's choice is worthwhile.
I think if the pressure is great, it is better to listen to your heart and enjoy a comfortable life.
First, with the continuous acceleration of urbanization, urban construction and supporting facilities in various places are becoming more and more perfect, and the efforts to recruit talents in the northern region are increasing. For example, in Xi 'an, Jinan and other provincial capitals, education and medical resources are sufficient to meet our daily needs; The cost of living in these places is much lower than that in Shanghai, and the happiness and comfort of life are relatively high.
Second, online education is on the rise. Children can be given one-on-one or special tutoring online. This part of the cost is much less than the loan interest on buying a house in Shanghai. Moreover, children's education does not need to be tutored separately for everything, as long as they are interested in their own weaknesses or interests, so that the cost will not be much and the quality of life will be further improved.
Third, we should treat education correctly. A good education cannot be separated from excellent educational resources, but it cannot represent everything. Children's education is a comprehensive education. Of course, cultural knowledge can enrich children's knowledge. I think the education that children are interested in is the most effective education. Without the fast pace and high pressure, we can take our children out to travel and accompany them to the library, so that they can experience nature and feel more affection. These are not provided by high-quality educational resources.
Therefore, I think if the pressure in Shanghai is relatively high, you can choose to live in the second and third lines away from the urban area, which will not delay your children's education and improve your quality of life.
It is better to know clearly before talking about children's education.
Yes, children are my sustenance and hope.
If you love your children, you can. People can't always think about how handsome they are. If you only care about your enjoyment, life is meaningless!
I was wronged and stopped talking, but I went back to my hometown to study. Because my husband only has a salary of 10 thousand yuan.
Yes, if possible, let children receive education in big cities and broaden their horizons. Like me, there are no conditions, so come on!