1. Parents should communicate with teachers. They can talk about children's growth process, personality characteristics, learning life in junior high school and so on. , so that teachers can quickly grasp the situation of children, so that education is targeted. Some parents work outside, so they can call the teacher. When communicating with teachers, parents should not worry, for fear that teachers are too busy to communicate with parents, and that teachers are difficult to deal with, not to mention not giving teachers anything to be afraid of. As an educator, teachers often take it as their duty to educate their children, and parents are happy to cooperate.

2. The standards of talents change with the times. Scores can't determine everything, and high scores are not necessarily high energy. Only students with all-round development, strong adaptability and innovative ability can adapt to the competition and challenges of the future society. Parents should set up new ideas, not just look at their children's grades.

3. Listen to your child's voice, don't just scold, help your child analyze the existing problems and find countermeasures, so that your child will not have rebellious psychology and will be willing to communicate with you. In the face of children with bad behavior habits, parents should not blindly blame, let alone give up. Encourage them more, give them confidence, cultivate their positive and optimistic attitude towards life, be good at discovering their advantages, patiently guide children to look at their shortcomings correctly, make plans together and help them correct their shortcomings.

4. Let children feel the care of their parents. Many parents work outside all the year round. Now, with the development of social economy, many parents care more about their children's scores than the children themselves, although they can contact each other by telephone or video. It is easy to form a sense of loss in children's hearts and feel unloved.