Why do children use adult language? Still screaming happily? In fact, it is not difficult to find that the reasons can be summarized as follows: First, I have been in frequent contact with mobile phones, internet, television and other carriers since I was a child, and I am familiar with the topics and expressions of adults. At present, most popular cartoons, such as Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf, Crayon Shinchan and so on, are full of emotional lines. For example, the wolf kept his mouth shut about his wife. Children who watch and listen too much will naturally have the idea of imitating or even trying. For example, the cartoon "Eight Teeth in the Sun" tells the story of how the heroine found Prince Charming. The title of the seventh episode is "Tianqi Chasing Girls". The teacher said that many lines in it made him very worried about the children who saw the cartoon-the hero Tian Qi shouted, "I'm worried, love, when will you come to see me?" ; The heroine eggplant said, "Come on, Vernon, the Monkey King went to the Western Heaven at the age of 500, and the White Lady went down the mountain at the age of over 1000. What's your hurry? " Second, in fact, not only cartoons have a great influence on children, but also their living environment. For example, parents will call each other wives and husbands at home, and children will learn it after a long time. Many parents always like to tease and tease their children with titles such as "boyfriend and girlfriend" and "husband and wife". For example, "Guoguo, who do you want to marry most?" "Tell uncle how many girlfriends there are in kindergarten" and so on. And the behavior of adults also plays a guiding role in children. Jia Yu, an expert on parenting education in Xi 'an and a psychological counselor for early education, said that nowadays, as children are exposed to more and more information since childhood, it is a normal social phenomenon to call each other "boyfriend and girlfriend" and "husband and wife", so parents should not pay too much attention to its influence. Children are exposed to these words through cartoons and TV, but their understanding of "I love you" and "husband and wife" is completely different from that of adults. As for the meaning of "husband's wife", these students are not clear about it, but simply express their preferences and think this title is very popular. "When children are about nine or ten years old, that is, in the third grade, with the understanding of gender differences and gender awareness, they will know how to be shy. This phenomenon will naturally disappear. " Jia Yu doesn't advise parents to joke with their children on topics such as "boyfriend and girlfriend", let alone deliberately correct changes, just let nature take its course and simply guide them positively. Experts also believe that children live in families and their parents are their earliest teachers. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their words and deeds in front of their children and guide them through their own behaviors.