A child's growing environment mainly includes family environment, social environment and school environment. Years of experience in education and teaching tell me that although all three are important, family education plays the greatest role in children's growth. School education and social education often play a role through family education.

Teaching is the unity of teaching and education, and education is more important than teaching. "Education" means ideological education, which mainly refers to the infiltration of children's world outlook, outlook on life and values and the cultivation of living habits from an early age. Family plays a decisive role in education.

"Teaching" refers to imparting knowledge, which mainly refers to guiding students to master the necessary knowledge and skills with the curriculum as the carrier. The responsibility of "teaching" is mainly borne by the school. "Teaching" plays a role on the premise of "education". Practice has fully proved that family education plays a decisive role in a child's success. Without successful "education", "teaching" can hardly receive miraculous effects.

The concept that "parents are responsible for food and clothing and schools are responsible for teaching and educating people" is extremely wrong. Parents should strive to improve the quality of "education" and don't pin all their children's hopes for success on teachers. It's just that the focus is different, that is, the division of labor between family and school is different.