Then, why do adults, including teachers and parents, have the idea that "children are difficult to teach now"?
Teacher swordsman thinks there are four reasons:
1, nowadays children have a stronger sense of independence, unlike in the past, they always listen to their parents and teachers.
Parents and teachers tell their children some truths and instructions, and children will think in their own minds first, and then choose whether to listen or not, and accept or not.
In the past, when teachers and parents gave orders, children were obedient and respectful. How dare they say "no"? It's very different now. Adults say one, children will probably say two three four five six! Adults say that children can make three or five sentences. Now many teachers and parents come from obedient children. When it's their turn to be qualified to talk about people, it's broken and they can't control their children if they want to "control"!
2. Now some children have a self-centered mentality, pride and indulgence.
I have been the little sun at home since I was a child. The whole family revolves around the children. Everything should follow the wishes of the children. If something goes wrong, they will make trouble and go against their parents. Many times, parents finally give up. This further encourages children's arrogance and brings this virtue to school, so they play games in front of teachers!
Instead of thanking teachers for correcting their "sick children", a few parents resolutely put on a show for their children, even at all costs! This makes children more fearless and does not take the teacher seriously.
Children have more channels to get information, and they no longer rely on the instruction of adults.
Children can understand and master something new earlier than teachers and parents. If teachers and parents don't keep pace with the times and study all their lives, then what they tell their children will feel that they are old-fashioned and unwilling to listen.
In fact, in the Internet age, children can adapt faster and understand and master many things that adults can't learn and master for a while. If adults always tell their children something old and rotten, how can we expect them to listen?
Some parents and teachers still adhere to the traditional educational concept and prefer to be tutors rather than friends.
Adults are not born better than minors in all aspects! It is necessary to change the concept from the top-down traditional education mode of "I say you listen" to the companionship and guidance of children's learning progress. We should get rid of the teaching concept that I have a bucket of water and give you a bowl of water in the past, establish a good partnership and learning partnership with children, gain their trust and friendship, and make progress with them.
Educating children and preaching with a straight face, this whole thing should be thrown into the garbage dump of history! Otherwise, there will be more "disobedient" and "difficult to teach" children, which will make teachers and parents feel pain!
To sum up, children are becoming more and more difficult to teach, whether children or adults, the key to solving problems lies in adults. Therefore, both teachers and parents should seriously reflect and take the initiative to make adjustments, instead of reacting passively, or even simply leaving them behind when they are powerless.
After all, children are children, and they can't compare with adults in "playing with their minds".