Judging from the situation you described, you are full of resentment towards your wife, and feel that this is not good for her, and that is not good either. So have you ever thought that you are a qualified husband? Are you a qualified father? How much have you paid for your wife or children? Marriage needs the joint efforts of both sides to maintain, and your feelings also need mutual efforts, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding and mutual respect to maintain. Blindly accusing people of not knowing how to reflect on themselves will only deepen contradictions. When things happen, we can solve the problem by thinking from the other side's point of view, with less accusations and more communication and consultation.