I believe everyone knows that many young people, especially young couples, pay special attention to their children's education. She thinks that children's education is very important to children. So everyone spares no effort to teach children. At this time, there will be a problem, that is, many couples have different educational concepts and often disagree. Because of differences, many couples have contradictions. Because of how to discipline children, some netizens asked why there are differences in educational concepts. I think there are several main reasons.

First, the educational experience between husband and wife is different.

I believe everyone knows that although two people have become husband and wife, although they have fallen in love and entered the marriage hall, it does not mean that their previous experiences are the same. Everyone is born in different families and has different educational experiences, which will prompt them to educate their children with their own experiences.

For example, my father was taught that boys must be manly and do more outdoor activities, while my mother was taught that children must be treated gently and carefully. Perhaps there are problems and differences in their educational concepts.

I think this situation is very easy to solve, that is, two people sit down and communicate, tell each other their educational experiences, and then synthesize this concept.

Second, the purpose of raising children is different.

I believe everyone knows why there are differences in educational concepts, because many couples have different views on their children. Some parents hope to cultivate their children into academically gifted people, while others hope that their children will not pay too much attention to learning, but cultivate their own moral quality. It is precisely because many people have different purposes in raising children, and because of different purposes, different educational viewpoints have emerged.

This kind of educational difference is actually understandable. After all, some people want their children to do well in school, but it doesn't matter if they are weak in other aspects. Some people want their children to have good moral quality, even if their academic performance is almost poor. I think the most important thing is to let your children develop in an all-round way, not just cultivate one. Therefore, the educational concept should be comprehensive.

For these two reasons, many couples will have differences in educational ideas. I think the final solution must be to ask the children. After all, children are the people you educated, and children are the final point. So, ask the children what their opinions are, so as to better handle the situation of educational differences.